This time around we have only been trying since sept.
With our son we had unexplained infertility for 15 cycles.
We were tracking by temps and OPK's for 6 months, before we conceived.
End of March I had my thyroid tested it was at 3.5 (normal range) then did a ton of research and asked to go on a low dose of synthroid to boost it because ideal fertility range is between .5-2. After 3 weeks on synthroid I got retested and it was down to 1.5 and I got pregnant that cycle! After a year and a half of unexplained fertility. I truly believe that is what helped us.
We had initial tests sperm analysis, and a ton of bloodwork for me. We had been referred to a specialist and we're waiting for our appointment when we got pregnant. - where I'm from doctors won't refer you to a specialist unless you have been trying for at least a year.
I have heard so many people say that when they started seeking fertility help they fell pregnant and even my gp told me this could well happen for me, purely because the stress levels go down because you know you're in the right hands getting help.
Unfortunately it didn't work that way for me but that's because then we found I have pcos which is clearly why we are struggling.
So pleased it all worked out for you though and you got your bundle of joy. Now time to give your LO a brother or sister
Sorry for the BFNs
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I'll be stalking the rest of the month hoping to see some good news! I won't be testing again until January.
Babydust - I know the heartbreak is terrible! Even when I expect it, the reality just devastates me and it feels so unfair. I know we all get sad at all the people around us getting pregnant, but this site helps realize that we are not alone. I also know a handful of people who dealt with months to years of trying, but no one seems to want to talk about it. Of those people, one now has 2 LOs, another pregnant with her 2nd, and one just had twins after IVF another one has been trying for #2 for over a year after 3 years for #1, so they give me hope that my time will come!
I am totally thankful for this site and all you lovely ladies.
I'm such a closed book in person so never open up, me and partner do talk about it all of course but I'm careful how upset I get around him because I don't want him to feel bad or him to start getting too stressed, he's quite good and laid back and believe that's we just hammer away at the clomid and plenty bd and our sticky bean will arrive... I'm just not so positive.
You're so right, I was prepared for bfn but then it was a totally different story when I seen it because you do just hold that bit of hope deep down and then it's all shattered.
I love hearing positive stories like that it shows that it's not impossible just bloody difficult and long...