Hello,first post, be nice . Im a 24 year old man, i have a 17 month old daughter with my ex partner. My daughters mother only allows me to see my child on her terms, when she can fit me in for an hour or 2 at her house. I am not allowed to take my daughter out, nor can stay at my house for any period of time. She says she doesnt trust me with her until she is older. My ex still seems to be very bitter about our break up which was before my daughter was born. Anyway,cut a long story short, I am a hard working man with no criminal record, I dont touch drugs, I rarely drink. I am not violent, there is no good reason for what she is doing. Anyway, I decided to go to a solicitor. After the first 4 or 5 letters which she has refused to co-operate with, she has told me to go to court because she wont back down. Im going to meet with my solicitor and tell her I regrettably have to take it to court. My ex refuses to put my name on the birth certificate. I am sick of going to her house for an hour or so a week,playing with my little girl then leaving her. I want proper father daughter time at my house. Or take her to meet the rest of her family. Are any men in my boat? Have you won proper access? Please tell me there are. Thanks