MillieJoan
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Does anyone else's partner have trouble coming often enough around ovulation?
My DH is 29 (I'm 28, almost 29), and when we were dating in college he could come more than once per day, every day if we wanted to! Now that we have a LO, we usually have sex once a week if we're lucky , except around ovulation, when we try to do it every other day, at least. I use OPKs to figure out when I'm having my surge, but we sometimes start a day or two before I get a positive test based on my fertile CM. The first day we dtd, he never has any trouble coming and there's always tons of semen (sorry if tmi!). If we dtd the next day as well, he can usually come without trouble, but I always notice less leakage aftetward, iykwim. And forget trying to come a third day in a row - he never can, and it just results in him feeling bad and me being frustrated but trying not to show it.
Even when we try just every other day, though, he often can't the third time
He drinks very little caffeine and alcohol, so that's not the problem. Is this just normal for guys his age? I always assumed this wouldn't happen until middle age at least, but maybe I'm wrong?
My DH is 29 (I'm 28, almost 29), and when we were dating in college he could come more than once per day, every day if we wanted to! Now that we have a LO, we usually have sex once a week if we're lucky , except around ovulation, when we try to do it every other day, at least. I use OPKs to figure out when I'm having my surge, but we sometimes start a day or two before I get a positive test based on my fertile CM. The first day we dtd, he never has any trouble coming and there's always tons of semen (sorry if tmi!). If we dtd the next day as well, he can usually come without trouble, but I always notice less leakage aftetward, iykwim. And forget trying to come a third day in a row - he never can, and it just results in him feeling bad and me being frustrated but trying not to show it.
Even when we try just every other day, though, he often can't the third time
He drinks very little caffeine and alcohol, so that's not the problem. Is this just normal for guys his age? I always assumed this wouldn't happen until middle age at least, but maybe I'm wrong?