DH had an affair

[mara16jade]

OP, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Nobody should go through this, especially when they just had a baby together!

I do have to agree with Jessica. I'll admit I'm not well versed in porn/sex addiction. But can that really be his issue here? Has he done something like this before, or just her? Its so wrong to cheat. But to do it in your home. In your bed. With the baby there.... wtf. And they basically "played house" with going to the park with the baby and holding/kissing the baby. Something isn't right. Seems like this went way beyond an affair and sex. This was personal and very emotional.

Anyway to talk to her husband and see if there's something she told him, that your husband hasn't told you?

Again, I'm so sorry. I hope you're doing ok and have some real life people to surround yourself with.

 

[3chords]

Wow.

I'm really sorry that you are going through this.

You are also a very kind and forgiving person. If that was done in my bed, it would be the last time my DH spent a night in our home. AFTER I charged him for a new bed and mattress.