Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[Sassy_TTC]

Dam shit for brains, I can't remember the photo either!

My baby can pretty much walk, sorry I can't help but drag about my lil popster! She's taking 4-5 steps stopping then doing the same again, very proud mumma

I'm dying today, literally! Pain is off the scale, 1 week or so to go! I am not sad at all that I'll never be pregnant again!

 

[Sugarlove2]

Congrats to Poppy Sassy! Poor you having to deal with the pain though. Sounds hideous!

 

[NatoPMT]

just taken this adorable photo of Eloise, hopefully the spoiler has worked but i have forgotten how to do it <shitforbrainslikesassy>


Oh sassers - you poor thing, I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time. edt; yeay at popsicle!!! Clever girl

Sugar, starting to try in July i think. Yikes too

 

[Sugarlove2]

Aw is Eloise trying to be a Xmas Shepherd already bless her!

Yay to ttc again for no 2!

 

[NatoPMT]

Aw is Eloise trying to be a Xmas Shepherd already bless her!

Yay to ttc again for no 2!

she's going for Mary, she wants the lead.

what are your ttc plans hmm hmm

PS Hoping, her cheeks have gone down, Penny has a clear run to Miss Chubbiest Cheeks victory

 

[Sugarlove2]

I would love another, but who know's whether it's possible with my age and crappy egg reserve results. We might see what happens at the end of this yr.

On a good day, I'd love another, but Charlotte is quite demanding, so between her, and a demanding dog too, I don't know if I could cope

 

[Round2]

Ah Nato, she's so adorable!

I can't wait for you guys to start TTC#2. I'm one of the few people on this thread that was TTC#2 while you guys were TTC#1 While I could always relate to everyone because of my losses, there were always certains feelings that I didn't find appropriate to express on this thread. I'm looking forward to being the resident expert!!

I'm so afraid to see what I"m going to look like after this kid comes. My legs are like tree stumps. I'll be the president of the fattie club....I know it!!

 

[Sassy_TTC]

I'm excited for you all to try again too, so far we've all gone on to have the opposite sex right? Me, Caz, round? Wonder if that pattern will continue!

Nats, your baby is sooooo bloody cute, seriously, I'd like to eat her?!x

 

[NatoPMT]

Rounders I can really sympathise with the tree stump legs, mine were so full of fat and water i could hardly bend them by the end. Its horrible, and i dont want to disappoint you but i really will be taking the Queen Fatty title this year. I am confident.

TTC2 must have its own set of issues, but Im hoping that i wont be quite as frantic this time (that said, i did have a preview of potential TTC2 breakdown when i thought my cycles were getting way too short recently)

Must be good to know youre there when this one arrives

Sugar, part of me thought if it takes a year, then i should have started straight away as I think its a bit of a risk for us oldies to wait to be honest. But i just didnt dare.

oh yes did you see my post before you rejoined that the NHS might fund the meds i got from Mr T? I spoke to my GP and she said she'd refer me, and i should get a letter off the private clinic to support the NHS prescribing them (Edt thats just reminded me of the cyclogest i fast talked for you - i am like a crack dealer)

I bet that Henry hound has his own room decorated with bone motifs.

 

[NatoPMT]

Thanks for the Eloise-love. She is bloody cute. She really is.

Sassy, you're right. It seems to work as a collective for the discoettes

 

[Sassy_TTC]

That's great about the nhs prescription thingy, must be a weight off your mind.

Me and d were just saying last night how chilled weve been this pregnancy! I think it's massively down to not "trying"! It wasn't in our plans so to speak! Im glad we're getting it over with though, poppy still sleeps a lot in the day and is in such a routine I'm able to get rest!

Don't even start with the tree trunk legs, mine look like chicken drums sticks covered in orange peel, totally gross!x

 

[Round2]

I bet my stumps are hairier than yours. I can't reach anymore, so now I'm just wearing long skirts. I'm gonna need to figure something out before I give birth though!

 

[Sassy_TTC]

D epilated mine, what a little treat that was for him! Will get him to shave the lady garden next week

 

[hoping:)]

It does seem like you guys are flying through you pregnancies but that is easy for me to say since I’m not the one pregnant. It won’t be long until you are all cuddling your newborns

Jenny- Happy 22 weeks
Jaymes- Happy 16 weeks
Hearty- Happy 28 weeks tomorrow
Sassy- Happy 37 weeks
Round- Happy 32 weeks

I can’t believe how many preggos we have on the thread now! I also can't wait for everyone to start round 2... I will be excitedly anticipating the next BFP boom!

VGibs- that is just awful. I sorta knew her too… she was in the Chart Stalker’s thread with me when I first joined BNB. I thought she was a little off and never quite believed her. It is scary to think that anyone can read these pages and know some of initimate details. You girls probably know more about my TTC journey than my own family does… with excepting of Tim of course since he lived it.

Its so cruel & sick to lie about going through miscarriages.

I remember the other girl… I do remember Sugar called her out on it. Well done

Megg- thanks for popping in! We'd love to see more of you!!!

Preggo- I hope the new pediatrician will confirm what your gut says. She could definitely just have a small build so hopefully there is nothing to be concerned about. All babies are different. I went to pick up Penny from our friend’s house ( she owns a daycare) and there was a little girl next to her that was such a tiny thing & was dwarfed by my baby. I thought she had to be younger than Penny but she was actually 11 months old! She was happy and healthy

Allie- look at you managing two babies! So excited for you to start trying in November! I hope the next time around is a lot smoother for you. Sorry about the extra poundage but the good news is that it is spring time so you have plenty of months to enjoy the fresh air and get back into shape… this is what I keep telling myself.

Sugar- I’m the same… I wouldn’t have even acknowledged a sweet until I became pregnant with Penny. Since I couldn’t have a glass of wine with dinner I would treat myself to something sweet. Now I can’t pass it up if someone offers it to me. Tim is the same and will devour a whole pan of fudge... luckily he is naturally thin and doesn't have to think about it. Lucky *******

Nato- too cute! I just want to pinch her chubby cheeks! Penny thinks it is hilarious when I squish her cheeks. I'm jealous of her long lock of hair. Penny is still a baldy Penny definitely still has the cheeks to hold the title!

AFM- Penny sampled avocado for the first time last night. It was the funniest sight. She first got some up her nose and tried to rub it with her little fists but ended up with some in her eyebrow. This led to her rubbing her face after each spoonful. After the feeding she looked like a baby zombie oozing green goo. I was going to post pics last night but BNB was down… I’ll post it later today.

 

[heart tree]

Good God you all are chatty!!!

Vicky I totally remember having convos with you about the crazy photos she posted! Inever suspected her as a liar, but didn't glean much from her posts.

I totally remember Sugar outing that other girl. I definitely suspected her!

And I remember Shannon. I tend to agree with Meggles. I read a lot of her posts in other threads and I truly think she believed the delusions she was having.

We've had a few on my PAL after recurrent losses thread and on the RMC thread. I've never been personally hurt by them as I usually suspect them right away and then go investigate their other thread posts. But it pisses me off that they look for attention by pretending to have recurrent losses. No one should want this pain. And frankly, it's not a great way to get attention. In real life, I isolated myself. If you've had recurrent losses, the last thing you want is to stand out in a crowd. You don't want attention. You want to be normal like everyone else. I know these women have deep issues, but it is too close to my heart to be nonjudgmental about it.

All this talk about ttc2! I can't even imagine it. I love being pregnant, but I have trouble enjoying it as I'm so worried all the time.

Sassy, one more week babe! You can do it!!

Nato why would you ever put that gorgeous girl behind a spoiler? She is so precious!

Round, are you still having BH contractions? God I hate them. I dream of a contraction free day.

Damn, can't remember what else I read. Pregnancy brain has really been kicking in lately. Recently I peed, looked at the TP, couldn't figure out why I was looking at it, then stood up without wiping! Luckily I quickly figured it out!

 

[Megg33k]

I'm totally confused

Megg did Shannon have another account before that one? Was she banned before? She rings a bell?

I can remember another girl too who Sugar outed, the one who told us the Dr said she could miscarry as she had a cough Who was that then?

I always just thought Dawn didn't really know what was going on with her body( she seemed a bit dim to me), durrrrrr me hey!

Happy 22 weeks Jen!!!

Amy, i bet your instinct is right and you'll just have a dainty little girl

Hi to all :wave:

Yes, she used to be here under a different name. I can't, for the life of me, remember what it was now though. :/ It's bugging me.

haha at rooney and Allie, me too. ahem.

" It makes me feel sad that they have to lie about such an awful thing to get attention. I know they hurt a lot people, but they must really be hurting themselves to do something like this."

i never get too upset about trolling myself, not wanting to undermine Jen's hurt, but it doesnt really bother me. I got quite spectacularly trolled on another site by a poster called Kirstie, cesca prob remembers it. It was about cot death which sounds terrible, but she would phone me up in floods of tears and she was so unhappy that i wasnt angry at her when she was outed. Everyone was up in arms about it, but she was really hurting. You can fake stories and personas but you cant fake crying so hard you cant speak. Even if there arent the tears like that, i agree that you have to have serious problems to do that, and if the problems arent the ones you post about, they are still problems.

Rounders, you can add another few years to the diaper decade - and the fact you will have a great sized family when BabyBoyR arrives.

Allie join the fatty crew. Fatties cant crept round silently i have found. I always have to step on a squeaky toy or my giant arse knocks something over. I need a beep beep beep alarm when im in reverse.

Jen, i am saying for the 2nd time today, I wouldnt mess with you.

I agree that the reason for the hurt may be a lie, but the hurting is generally real. I guess that's part of why I'm ambivalent about her lying. It's no excuse, but I suspect there's a lot going on there.

 

[Sassy_TTC]

To lie about recurrent losses when you've never been through it is bloody sick in my eyes, I don't feel sorry for those people at all, it's wrong and disgusting!

 

[NatoPMT]

I'm not disputing that its wrong, I'm saying they have serious issues themselves to do something that wrong which makes me feel some concern and sympathy for how serious they must be

it wouldnt be me if i labelled someone without wanting to know more. and i have been on the end of it and close to someone who did it.

 

[Sassy_TTC]

Your a better person than me then!

I wasn't aiming that post at you hun, just venting.xx

 

[heart tree]

I agree Nato. When I wear my therapist hat, I completely agree. If I was counseling them I would want to explore the underlying motivation.

But when I take that hat off, I just get angry. I can see both sides of it.