Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[Allie84]

Oh, Amy, that truly stinks that they won't scan you there. Well, as you have to wait it out I'm relieved you're being well taken care of. Not being in any pain is such a good sign. Are you in touch with your hubby? Just try to get as comfy as possible and hopefully sleep?

 

[heart tree]

Amy, I know what you mean about it feeling like it is over. I've been there myself. I'm glad you aren't alone and are finding some comfort right now. Time will tell what is happening. It is true that if it is a mc, there isn't anything you can do. And quite honestly, even if it is a hematoma, there still isn't anything you can do but wait it out and hope for the best. I'm so sorry you are going through this babe, I really am. No one should have to go through this once. Going through it more than that is just cruel and unfair.

 

[pregoinnorge]

Well season 1 of Six Feet Under is almost ready to watch. It's almost 2:30 am but still no sleeping for this girl.

How much time did you all take off after your m/c(s)? My MIL thinks in Norway it's standard to get 2 weeks, but I don't think it will be good for me to sit around for 2 weeks.

 

[heart tree]

I happened to have all of mine before or during a holiday break. The last one was a 10 day vacation I already had scheduled to visit my family. The first and second were over the Christmas and New Year holiday. So I never had to take much time off because I was already off. I think a week is a good amount of time to mourn and let your body heal. But I liked going back to work to keep my mind off of it. I had D&Cs for all of mine though. I don't know how long it takes to pass it naturally.

Sorry you still aren't asleep. You aren't going to work tomorrow are you?

I hope you like Six Feet Under as much as I did. Michael C Hall is a much different character in this than in Dexter. The characters are very complex and human psychology is highlighted which is one of my interests. It can be dark though.

 

[pregoinnorge]

Only 15 minutes now until I can watch it!

No, I'm not going to work tomorrow, and I probably won't go this week. Kristian is coming home Thursday night so I will be taking Friday off regardless. I'll see what the doctor recommends, but I am pretty sure my boss will support me. I have a lot of deadlines this month though, but I guess they'll just have to deal. I mean I've been covering for my colleague who got knocked up by someone who is not her husband for months now because of her back injury, so seriously, someone can just cover for me now.

We officially close on our new apartment on Friday too, which means we have to come up with a shitload of cash before then. Wish I wouldn't have spent so much on private scans and useless doctors. But I am excited to order new furniture and get that doggy dog.

I've got a little foot warmer on me at the moment--my little meowsers

 

[Megg33k]

I was never working through my losses. They were also around holidays though!

 

[heart tree]

Good I'm glad you aren't going in and Kristian is coming on Thursday. The appointments weren't useless, at the time they were necessary for your peace of mind.

It's great that you have some things to look forward to. A new dog, new furniture! Yay! I'm a firm believer in retail and pet therapy. I was shopping for clothes the day before my last D&C. I knew the pregnancy wasn't viable at that time. I shopped and it made me feel better for a spell. Do what you need to do. As for work, they totally need to deal! Especially after the coverage you provided for that woman.

 

[heart tree]

Cute foot warmer!!! I swear animals just know when things aren't right. They do what they have to to make you feel better.

Did you hear about the cat at a skilled nursing facility? She went into patients rooms a day before they died and would lie with them until they died. She consistently did it to the point that the staff started to call family when they saw the cat spending a day with a patient. Amazing!

 

[pregoinnorge]

Retail therapy is the best, isn't it? I've already done some online shopping tonight, but I better be careful

well, my torrent isn't working so no tv shows tonight.

once again, thanks for keeping me company. You're the best

 

[heart tree]

Damn! No Six Feet Under? What a bummer!

I just got home from work and am around all night. Just going to sew Megg's blanket.

What did you buy?

 

[pregoinnorge]

wow, that IS pretty amazing. I hope the patients didn't know that beforehand though. Might be terrifying to see that cat walking into your room....

 

[heart tree]

I don't think they knew. I love animals so much. They are such pals!

 

[pregoinnorge]

i did some online shopping and got some kitchen gadgets and some leather gloves.
As soon as I get the measurements of the new living room, I am going to order a couch. I really like this one:

https://www.bohus.no/stue/Sofaer/sofa/kansas-hjoerne-m-divan/


but it might be too big. these kinds of sofas are super popular in Norway at the moment, but they seem a little outdated to me. I dunno....

 

[Megg33k]

I don't mean to interrupt... but I think I did something stupid. I tested to make sure the trigger shot got into my system okay... Its pretty standard just so we don't have to worry that "maybe it didn't work" or whatever. But, I'm staring at the most perfect BFP ever, and I'm sobbing because I know its not real.

 

[heart tree]

Amy I really like the couch. I don't think it's outdated. I really like simple clean lines. I'm big into the modern retro look. Kind of mad men style of furniture. The couch looks like a smaller version of my couch. Mine is gray too. It is my favorite neutral color. It goes with everything.

Oh Megg honey you will see a real one soon. I'm sorry it upset you. You are pumped with hormones right now. Your baby is getting made tomorrow don't forget!

 

[pregoinnorge]

I'm sorry Megg, but don't cry! This is just one step closer to your forever baby.
Damn hormones. They're a bitch.

 

[pregoinnorge]

sweet, download finished. started the first one

 

[Megg33k]

I'm so scared it will never, ever be real!

 

[heart tree]

Amy tell the Fisher family I said hello. Enjoy.

Megg I know exactly how you feel. Not sure it will ever be real. We just need to keep believing it will.

 

[yogi77]

Megg I'm sorry that test upset you...please don't stop believing that it will be real one day for you.