you better get lucky for me this month sugar, husband is defo going to australia. On the upside it means i can get drunk and fall over on NYE. Not feeling hopeful this time, my wanton, out of control optimism has finally failed me. Glad youre feeling better, is Mal getting tested again? Is IUI an option, i remember megg saying they sorted out the swimmers into a good pile and gave them a turbo boost - sorry if ive missed this but have you worked out his functional count? i worked John's here:
https://www.babymed.com/tools/sperm-calculator
ps what was the weird test?
Megg it sounds to me that you should tell her you arent up to it if she really wants to talk to you. Appearing to be mean is something we withhold our own needs to avoid - or so i keep getting told in class every thursday. Being softly straight with her is less confusing for her than you withholding i think.
Hi Money - how you doing. Well done on the headhunt. I would be apprehensive too, youve had a godawful year and im not surprised if you feel a bit insular and detached from the rest of the world after wrapping yourself up and away while you get through this. It happens to me a lot because i isolate myself a lot. I think this time you were already at home and not being forced to function the way you usually do, so i dont think its surprising. You say M doesnt want you to go back to work yet - what do you want to do? Maybe negotiating a later start date for January might be possible? Bloody class is doing my bloody head actually in.
Yes triphasic is good, but i had the same message last month - my averages are the same as my last 2 months so not reading into it. If my temps stay high for another 2 days, that would be unusual for me <ffgeek>
pmsl at hearty dangling recipes in front of sugars nose
yes shes an idiot, cant say why cos that would be breaking confidentiality and all that, but shes a knob. I have been practising what to say to her tomorrow but i just cant be bothered at the moment, i want a quiet life for a couple of classes as its too heavy for it to be every other day - its playing on my mind and stopping me sleeping and i need my sleep. I agree that all that is in my head is TTC and mc too, i cant be arsed making small talk about new peoples jobs and stuff on meeting them.
Oops and oh dear and hahah at butterfingers all at the same time. Total arses!! If sassy can get knocked up without a full, er, cup worth, you can too.
My chart looked good this time last month too - my averages are about the same (that said, i did get a bfp for 1 day last month so mebbes i should be more optimistic)
Hi Jenny, welcome back to the witch
Hi Vic, good to see ya petal. Im sure your mind will be racing with trying to understand whats happened, i hope you get some proper rest very soon. Alex sounds like he is being a massive help to the family - thats so lovely
Hi YogiBumpBuddy - your temp today might be the pre-ov drop? if you got a + today, wont you likely ov in the 12-36 hours after the +? Lets hope for the rise tomorrow. I will be keeping my beady eye on you
just got to the last post and seen hearty has pointed the immaculate conception finger of comparison at sassy too. sassy is our poster girl