Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[sugarlove]

Ha ha Mone that made me laugh the idea of puffing and panting and running in the freezing cold
I've just spent an hour ranting on to Mal about how much I fucking hate doctors. I can't believe I'm probably out of a job in the new year too. This really has been a shit of a year!

I have my fingers crossed for a bfp for you. I don't think an early ov will be a problem. Loads of women ov early and get preggers.
Yes I did see cori. It was pretty silly, especially when Kevin had to take over from tyronne

Allie I'm tempted to start the soy now and just take it till day 8, then start it properly next month
Xx

 

[sugarlove]

I meant till day 9

 

[Razcox]

Hey all got some catching up to do but wanted to let you know how i was getting on.

Well its all over here now, never made it to the D & C as my body did it itself wednesday night. It was worse then the last time and i passed out on the bathroom floor because of blood loss. Que a trip to A & E and the nightmare that is the NHS. Our local hospital Telford dont have a gyno ward so they wanted to send me to shrewsbury who had no beds or Wolvo how also had no beds. They set me up with a drip and wanted to keep me in over night so they had to send me to shrewbury anyway and hope a bed turned up. It was 12am by this time and i then spend the next 3 hours lay in a bed in A & E, i got seen by the gyno doctor and looked at down there and everthing by this point had settled down to normal period type stuff. The drip had got my blood pressure up and i was much better as well as fed up so i signed myself out and went home as they still couldnt find me a bed but wanted me to stay over night . . .!

Anyway much better now just a little pale and got more holes in me then a pin cushion

Right off to read the posts from the last few days and see what you ladies have been up too xx

 

[msarkozi]

awe Raz!! I am glad it is over for you now though, but I'm very sorry about you passing out and having to go through that!

 

[sugarlove]

God the nhs is shite Raz . Sounds like you've been thru a horrible ordeal Raz. Thank god it's over. Take care of yourself x

 

[heart tree]

Oh Raz, what a horrible experience! I'm so sorry hun. If losing a pregnancy isn't enough, they put you through all of that? How are you holding up sweetheart? I hope you can take some time to rest and recover.

 

[Allie84]

Oh, Raz, I'm so sorry. That sounds like a nightmare. I can't imagine how scary it must have been to have passed out from blood loss. Thinking of you. I hope you get to take it easy and rest up this weekend.

 

[Dazed]

Oh Raz, I'm so sorry chick!

 

[jenny25]

the nhs are rotten i have spent the last few hours trying to get through to nhs direct becasue my antibiotic trimethoprim that the young gp may not of been suitable for me after i took my first dose i read the leaflet and it shouldnt be used if you have a blood disorder hello doc i have aps so im waiting on them calling back to find out if its safe or not

 

[sugarlove]

Fuckers Jenny! I stick 2 fingers up at the nhs! I had to pay 2 quid yesterday to park in the hospital carpark. What a joke!

 

[sugarlove]

How you doing Dazed? X

 

[MinnieMone]

Raz, I'm so sorry, that sounds horrendous, my experience with hospitals during my mc's has always been pretty bad, I just don't think the NHS is coping in general, it's brilliant we have free healthcare but at what cost to the patients. try and take it easy this week and get your strength back up. I really am sorry you're going through this.

Sugar - hope you can start the soy, it will make you feel like you are doing something positive eh. i'm thinking of starting ww in the new year, it will be the only way i will shift the weight. i've also been looking at those bootcamps, i might try and get to one for a break, although they look like bloody hard work.

my fish finger sanger was lovely, then a muffin with cheese and marmite and then 5 quality street purple ones. ah now i know why i can't shift the weight. gulp.

 

[VGibs]

"my fish finger sanger was lovely, then a muffin with cheese and marmite and then 5 quality street purple ones. ah now i know why i can't shift the weight. gulp."

haha Is this food your talking about???

 

[MinnieMone]

yeah it's food.... really bad english food! Or comfort food as I like to call it.... I know fish don't have fingers

 

[sugarlove]

I agree Mone, the NHS is just too stretched.

Mmm I could just eat a muffin!

I like WW but I don't lose weight very quickly on it. I'm going along to a free lighter life meeting on Monday and might look to join in the new year. You're only on 500 cals a day, but you're meant to lose shit loads of tub!

 

[MinnieMone]

i agree sugar ww is hard graft. i usually go to thailand once a year and stick a pipe up my bum and do a detox fast. On a 10 day fast I usually lose about 5kg, then another 3-4kg when home, this is the first year i haven't done one and it shows. plus when i was single i lived on black coffee, cigs and red wine,with the odd tub of hoummous and some oat biscuits thrown in, now i'm cooking a proper meal every night and having a fry up every morning with oh. It's not helping I'm not working as usually i'll walk to the tube there and back each day then be running around most of the time.

No-one is making me eat crap so i can't blame anyone, but i do think that this rubbish year has contributed a lot, all i keep thinking about is i would of been having a baby next week, and i'm not, so this muffin will make me feel better, and it doesn't!

When we were jogging (ok fast walking for me) around the park today we passed the cutest most adorable little girl on a scooter, and I said to mart 'why can't i have a little girl like that' and he said 'because we're going to have a little boy' and I just choked up because in that split second I really thought yeah we will and it was so lovely. bless him, he said the right thing!

I hope we all have a better time next year eh. I'm really going to try and focus on me and m a lot more and a little less on ttc come January as I can't take another year like this one. Hopefully we will all have our happy endings soon.

 

[cazza22]

Raz you poor thing hun, what an awful experience stupid god damn NHS they piss me off sooooo bad. I can only hope that time is a healer babe, theres only so much shit one person can take and i hope my darling that u'll be back fighting in no time which im very sure you will be get lots of snuggles off those beautiful puppys of yours xxx Lov hugs n kisses xxx Caz xxx

Luce those Numbers sound fine to me babe for 12dpo i think u said u were? i hope thee spotting and cramping has calmed down now chick

Sugar im sorry you had a crappy appointment massive I really hope the Soy is that little extra something you need to spur on those eggys xxx

Allie im praying this is your month babe yay for high temps xxx

Hearty, Nato, Dazed, Minnie hope your all ok on this fine Friday evening, its snowing buckets here in Manchester ggrrrrrr I HATE IT!!! Im like bambi on the snow/ice

Mel, sass & yogi :wave: hey to u all and bubs xxx

sorry if i missed anyone lov all round

Lov u long time xxxxxx Caz xxxxxxxx

 

[Allie84]

Heya Cazz, nice to hear from you! What are you up to this snowy Friday evening?

I was in my pjs 'til 4, took a shower and put on new pjs.

I have to admit when I was in the bathroom I saw I had an OPK so I POAS. I'm so bad! And after all my blethering about how good it felt to not test early. It had a very very faint line, and now I'm sad, because if I were pregnant it would have been much darker.

Sugar, did you decide to take the soy for 3 days then? I think even if it's not enough to massively change your cycle, it just might help!

Mone, I am on WW and I find it difficult. I didn't go for 10 weeks and just showed up this week. It's really hard to calorie count everything I eat, and annoying. I'm going to try to stick with it but not until after New Year's, I mean I want to enjoy Christmas chocolate.

 

[Razcox]

Thanks ladies i am doing ok now just look like an IV drug user or like i have been beaten up because of all the bruises on my arms and hands from all the bloods an stuff. Glad its all over and my body can get back to normal so we can get back to TTC in feb

Taking me longer to catch up with you girlies then i thought though only on page 1006 so 20 pages to go. Off to bed now so it will have to wait until tomorrow. Love to all xxx

 

[Megg33k]

Allie - I think it would require all 5 days... but I suppose starting CD7 could still work. I don't know. I mean, no one suggests that you do start that late. I don't feel right saying "oh yeah, that'll be fine" because I don't know if it will. I don't know WHY they don't suggest starting after CD5. Obviously, she's welcome to try it. But, I'm just not comfortable saying to do so, iykwim?

I'm okay, Mone! Very tired!!! LOL Slept 8 hours and still had a 2 hour nap today! You eating marmite is enough to make me !

OMG, Raz! How awful!

Ashley - If you really want to try Soy this time, take all 5 days. Its totally up to you. I don't know if it will work exactly the same starting on day 7, but don't cut the dose short. If you do it, do it all the way, ya know? Do what you think is best!