Answer is no!
The video gaming doesn't bother me unless he stays up until 4 am playing (xbox, ps3, wii). In fact I'll either watch or play with him
It's the money he spends on it when we need other things (like I've needed glasses for a year). He's not necessarily irresponsible like he won't go out and buy it if we need food or things we can't live without.. But, it's definitely something we need to address before we start trying! Apparently the xbox 1 AND the new wii are coming out so he'll probably get them for himself for Christmas. I'm a SAHM so if he wants something, he'll get it himself!
He DOES help out a lot when he's home though. He does dishes every now and then, cooks a lot, works on the cars, watches after Emmy, changes diapers, and works outside. We had a half joking/half serious agreement that I'd do most of the inside stuff if he took care of the outdoor things! We live in the country so there's a lot of yard work and stuff do to in the barn.
He's doing an amazing job for jumping from bachelor life to being daddy & husband! (We started dating when Emilia was 8 months and I had gotten away from her abuse sperm donor the year before) So I can't complain too much. He's amazing
btw Baileysbub, my DD's name is Emilia Elise! You're the first person I've seen in almost 3 years who named their daughter that!!