GRRRR SHUT UP!!!! This thread is mainly aimed at media and scientists and people who generally come up with things that in my opinion don't really matter¬ All these do's and don'ts and people telling you your a bad mother because you bottle feed or you wean early or you dont. You work or you dont work. Somebody is ALWAYS telling us that what we do for our kids and they way we are bringing them up is wrong and we should do it this way, or that way. WHY?!!! Obviously in some cases parents need guidance or in some cases the parents actually are harming their children in what they are doing BUT the majority of us no matter what our morals, choices in feeding etc are doing a good job. So what if you breast or bottle feed? So what if you wean at 4 months or 8 months. Is your child happy? is your child healthy? is your child loved? Everybody needs guidance, everybody asks for help and opinions but what we dont need is being told that we are bad parents because we chose from a number of options given to us. Some people choose routine/ some don't some choose the bottle/ some choose the breast Sorry I'm just sick of being told that the way I choose to bring up my son is wrong. Wrong in who's world?