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july2013
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I still get ID'd all the time and often get given an under 16's ticket at the cinema! I'm 23.
Id of said late 20/early 30s Alice.
You look great alicecooper, I love your eye colour! I'd guess about the same age as me, I'm 29.
thank you, and yes I'm 29
(30 in 12 days time. Nooooo! *cries* )
Id of said late 20/early 30s Alice.
You look great alicecooper, I love your eye colour! I'd guess about the same age as me, I'm 29.
thank you, and yes I'm 29
(30 in 12 days time. Nooooo! *cries* )
I'm 30 in May, strangely enough I'm not bothered at all. All of my friends are gutted about turning 30 but I'm quite looking forward to it. I hope you have a great day, do you have any plans?
Id of said late 20/early 30s Alice.
You look great alicecooper, I love your eye colour! I'd guess about the same age as me, I'm 29.
thank you, and yes I'm 29
(30 in 12 days time. Nooooo! *cries* )
I'm 30 in May, strangely enough I'm not bothered at all. All of my friends are gutted about turning 30 but I'm quite looking forward to it. I hope you have a great day, do you have any plans?
Thank you. haha I wish I wasn't bothered about it. DH and I are going out to a nightclub. MIL is going to stay over at our house and look after the kids.
Actually although I'm looking forward to a night out, I'm kind of dreading it too. It'll be the first time we've left DS3 overnight (he's spent an hour or two with MIL before, but only during the daytime).
He co-sleeps and breastfeeds through the night so I'm so worried about what's gonna happen. He WILL take expressed milk but we've not attempted it at night time.
I have a feeling MIL is in for a rubbish night, and therefore so is DS3, and on balance I think I'd rather stay home but DH is insisting I have a night out for my birthday.
I DO want to go out, but not if DS3 is going to have a rough night.
I think I must look quite young. All I know is that people don't take me very seriously a lot of the time. I'm 27 and I'm a nursing student. People on placements (who I don't know) often ask questions about whether I live off my mum and dad's money, or when I was pregnant a few were quite open and rude about it 'clearly not being planned' because I was so young and a student. Someone who I'd never even seen before came over when I was sat watching an operation the other day and told me, "If you continue sitting like that you'll look like a 90 year old man soon". Not that I think it's acceptable to speak to any 18 year old like that, but I just know that the way people speak to me is related to the age they think I am. I just don't think they'd ask someone 'older' about their financial situation the first time they met. It makes me feel a bit stupid. They tend to be extremely surprised when I say I'm married with a family and had full time jobs etc before, and I do get treated differently afterwards.
Mainly it just makes me very sure that I won't speak to 18 year old students in that way after I've qualified, because I know how daft and young/naive it feels to be on the receiving end. We've all got to start somewhere, were they never young trainees or something?!
I found this for a long time I had a real thing about it and used to get paranoid ppl were talking down to me. I still get it a lot at my older kid's school because they're teenagers and I look a lot younger than all the other parents I know they make assumptions about whether or not I am/was a teenage single mum. It really annoys me, at my son's parents eve the other day, one of his teachers asked me if I live in a flat which I thought was a weird question. I was like um no I live in a house and I'm married not that it would be any of her business if I did live in a flat, wtf!