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And before anyone comes in high and mighty this thread isn't to judge those who do tap their children so if you have nothing nice to say say nothing.
So does anyone tap/smack their kids hands bum? If so what age did you start at a guess or what was the child doing to get you to start using this method?
Now I have issues with this ...with myself. My stepfather was an asshole and I was at the hands of abuse for about a year of my life so this really makes me edgy obviously I'm not on about marking the child, making the skin raw etc but I still fear using this method as a 'no' I laugh when OH tells her off too it makes me nervous which annoys him but I can't help it yet of course I'm comfy when I tell her off even though I have gave her a cuddle 2 seconds later feeling bad eek!
Anyway the reason for my question is because my lil girl is becoming a brat lol
I spotted her lil temper some time ago how wrong was I that it was the max she is screeching screamin crying so loud when she doesn't get her own way and mostly does that AT us. Has to stop somewhere esspecially as now its a case of getting her own way to stay up til 12/1/2am this last 3-4 nights.
So does anyone tap/smack their kids hands bum? If so what age did you start at a guess or what was the child doing to get you to start using this method?
Now I have issues with this ...with myself. My stepfather was an asshole and I was at the hands of abuse for about a year of my life so this really makes me edgy obviously I'm not on about marking the child, making the skin raw etc but I still fear using this method as a 'no' I laugh when OH tells her off too it makes me nervous which annoys him but I can't help it yet of course I'm comfy when I tell her off even though I have gave her a cuddle 2 seconds later feeling bad eek!
Anyway the reason for my question is because my lil girl is becoming a brat lol
I spotted her lil temper some time ago how wrong was I that it was the max she is screeching screamin crying so loud when she doesn't get her own way and mostly does that AT us. Has to stop somewhere esspecially as now its a case of getting her own way to stay up til 12/1/2am this last 3-4 nights.