Bournefree
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I love, love, love this section and I do think it is wonderful, and I don't want it removed....
...But, so much so that I hardly ever post anywhere else, or read much of the rest of the board in the 1st, 2nd or 3rd Tri-s. Perhaps because sometimes my view point differs so much from some of the other posters in those threads.. and also perhaps because I sometimes (I'm sad to say), don't have the time or inclination to post there why I think someone should trust their bodies for X,Y and Z reasons! Most it appears don't want to hear it. However I do try. When the homebirther sticky was within the pregnacy threads at least it was just as popular then, but it was top of the list to look at for everyone and hard to ignore.
But I do feel although this is a great place to talk to like minded women, I'm concerned we are not doing women as a whole, any favours by not exposing them to our plans for natural and/or homebirth. Our birth stories are increasingly being posted in the section and not on the announcements pages. Why is it the birth stories with the headline "traumatic" get the greasest number of replies>?
With this in mind, how are we presenting natural and homebirth, (which should be the normal and the way we see it) to other women if we are in our own section and other women are not enjoying reading our stories? but instead we are becoming increasingly segregated ourselves?
What do you think?
...But, so much so that I hardly ever post anywhere else, or read much of the rest of the board in the 1st, 2nd or 3rd Tri-s. Perhaps because sometimes my view point differs so much from some of the other posters in those threads.. and also perhaps because I sometimes (I'm sad to say), don't have the time or inclination to post there why I think someone should trust their bodies for X,Y and Z reasons! Most it appears don't want to hear it. However I do try. When the homebirther sticky was within the pregnacy threads at least it was just as popular then, but it was top of the list to look at for everyone and hard to ignore.
But I do feel although this is a great place to talk to like minded women, I'm concerned we are not doing women as a whole, any favours by not exposing them to our plans for natural and/or homebirth. Our birth stories are increasingly being posted in the section and not on the announcements pages. Why is it the birth stories with the headline "traumatic" get the greasest number of replies>?
With this in mind, how are we presenting natural and homebirth, (which should be the normal and the way we see it) to other women if we are in our own section and other women are not enjoying reading our stories? but instead we are becoming increasingly segregated ourselves?
What do you think?