Bournefree
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Double post
I worried about getting lynched somewhat too, but mostly I'm ignored haha.
Anyways, reading back over my post, I seem to have missed the point completely and just ranted so err.. I like that this bit is separate. In my experience the majority don't want to hear the voices of the minority and those that do, will seek out and find this section.
A friend of mine recently told me that mothers often self judge themselves when comparing their choices to others, and that my choices can often make those who opt for all the drugs, formula etc feel like their choices are wrong. So perhaps that explains a lot. Again, it pisses me off though because I NEVER judge other mothers choices. Not because I'm some all encompassing, love every woman type earth mother.. But simply because I don't give a damn! My choices are just that. Mine! I make them because they are what fits best for me, not because I think I'm doing the most 'right' thing.
Hell, at the end of the day no matter what we choose do do as mothers, surely our ultimate goal is the same thing.. Not to raise glue-sniffing gobshites that become serial killers.. No? Ah, that's just my fear then?! Lol.
Hello ladies,
I dont really post in here but i have said since i got pregnant that i wanted a waterbirth with no pain relief. I dont have a reason or preference for not posting here but i do know when i get to a later stage in my pregnancy that i'll be in here all the time reading other peoples birth stories ect. I'm trying to keep calm about the labour but i feel its a bit early to be thinking properly about yet, just because i dont want to jinx my pregnancy. But i do think having a seperate forum for natural/home births is a good thing, for the ladies that are interested can come here and get/give information but other ladies dont have to have it 'forced' on them. I suppose its personal preference but i'm sure you ladies will be my lifesavers in a few weeks
Faun!!! WE NEED YOU!!!!!! Natural is not always at home!!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE post your experiences!!! You can start things off and others will follow! This board is more about the experience and your approach than the venue. We have hospital, birth centre AND home birthers.
I BEG YOU. Please start a thread of your experiences. We need it!! x
People who are at home still have the option of Diamorphine and/or the g&a so that doesn't make them any better off tbh.
Anyway sorry for waffling but i feel like it would be nice if more people posted in here about natural birth in hospital and what to expect.