Doing the SMEP - first month

[mrsmummy2]

Aw no sorry for bfn

DH was surprised it was bfn as ive had so much nausea. Have read stories of people getting late bfps when implantation prob happened at 12dpo but also articles that people had pg symptoms until their first AF after MC even though there was no hormone left

Time will tell!

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Thanks but I'm ok Hun keeping faith but if AF comes I'm gonna try and stay positive as astrology say my next best cycle is next month and I've also bought the stork which is expensive so would be nice to use it and not have to sell it for less then I paid lol as I opened the void seal really wanted to have a look lol. I'm to impatient for waiting. I know Hun I was surprised too but you could be right and you said the mc was just over 7 weeks right, so could be, but secrectly im keeping hope for u too is this literally your first cycle charting as I only see this on and the one from ya MC with no temps! xx

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

P.s Ive also seen a lot on women having a MC then getting pregnant quickly. xx

 

[mrsmummy2]

Yea ive seen that too. I was so hopeful for this cycle. Mind you the mc was only 4 weeks yesterday, so I'm not really sure what would happen this soon
Mine said next cycle too. What sign are you?
I feel better than i thought i would seeing a bfn.. which surprised me. Hopefully next month will be ours.

What's a home iui? I hadn't even heard of a normal iui til feb this year lol.

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

I wouldn't know Hun I've never made it far past af due date at most 3 days with all my chemical pregnancys (early MC). I'm a saggituras Hun! You? And it's not like iui at a clinic lol it's a product called the stork, it's hard to explain but I'll give it a go! So unlike in a clinic where they syringe it into your cervix, you don't do this with the stork although you can buy kits like that too. So the stork is like a cap (cervix cup) inside a condom you use the condom and have natural intercourse, then remove cap from condom which is filled with semen you then put the cap in the stork device close the cap and insert and let go close to cervix. Hope that makes sense. It is similar to using a soft cup or menstrual cap but they can sweep up anti bodies that kill sperm in the vagina were as the stork cap closes before insert and opens once at cervix so nothing bad that can kill sperm can't be collected on insert like a soft cup ect. I'm only trying it as I've been trying to conceive a long time and my partner used to have sperm mobility and count issues. His been on maca a few months now so hoping that's improved it but he won't be retested as it's to stressful. His one of those if it happens it happens. I'm sweet with that though xx

 

[mrsmummy2]

Ahh i see thats a good idea! And presumably a less expensive way of doing it. Good luck

I'm Piscies. Just checked back at my test.. theres a vvvvvfl, but i did it at like 5am. So its probably an evap!! Not gunna hold out much hope. Thrown it in the outside bin now so i don't keep checking lol. Will retest tues if AF doesnt show i think!

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Well it's still a bit expensive but a lot cheaper then clinical iui. So in a sense yer... if it works lol. Well I'm gonna send you luck cause u never know. When u holding out testing until! xx

 

[mrsmummy2]

I read this thing online that if you get bfns and then start getting bfps after 14dpo it usually ends up not being a viable pregnancy not sure if its true but its made me quite nervous now. Id rather get AF at this point if it wouldn't be a good outcome. If AF doesnt show ill prob test wednesday.. maybe give it a big longer.

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Tbh Hun I've read that but am sure it's a myth as if you search charts like yours then add last BFP (15dpo or later) many women have successful pregnancies with BFP later then DPO20! Also I never got my BFP with DD until I was really late 1-2 weeks maybe even longer. So that can't be true as my DD is happy and healthy and 8. Wouldn't pay to much attention to that I've seen to much proof to class it as a myth Hun! xx

 

[mrsmummy2]

Oh wow really! That gives me hope. Tmi but my wee smells like hair dye (you know that amonia smell?) I had that with my last bfp. Hoping its a good sign. I have zero cramping too.. which is unusual for me because normally i cramp a lot before and during AF

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

That's a funny symptom hay, and if that's a bfp symptom for you then must be a good sign Hun, I've got that too I normally cramp like crazy from about dpo7 until af along with really bad gurgling tummy but haven't had hardly any this cycle. My boobs are on and off slightly sore. Normally sore until day before AF arrives so I'm really hope its a good sign but u just never know my bodies played to many tricks on me in my time ttc lol xx

 

[mrsmummy2]

Ah i so hope this is our cycle!! Its so frustrating just waiting

I've got 1 frer left.. will try to keep it til at least weds if AF doesnt show!

 

[Summer2105]

Just read through the last couple pages. So sorry for both of your bfn. I wanted to share that with baby #3 I tested everyday probably starting at 8 or 9dpo and got bfn's until 17dpo. So it is still possible! I didn't test today. Just didn't wanna feel that disappointment. I'd rather see af show then another bfn. Af is due tomorrow or possible Tuesday so I'll be waiting until Wednesday to test.

 

[mrsmummy2]

Oh wow really summer! It really gives me hope im gunna test weds too. Fx for us all!!

 

[Summer2105]

I guess I'm just not one of the lucky women who get that 9dpo bfp. Looking back I've had a bfp at 15dpo, 10/11dpo, 12dpo, 17dpo and 12/13dpo. I'm not gonna count myself out yet. I never have signs of af until I see red. My last couple cycles were 30 and 32 days. Today is CD31. I think being stressed during ovulation could of caused a late ovulation. Plus for my sign it did say this is when I could conceive and was right for my 5 pregnancies so I have hope. I just wish we didn't have to wait. The tww is torture! But they do call it a tww for a reason so don't get down just yet! There's still a few more days!

 

[mrsmummy2]

FX for us all
Ive never known how many dpo ive been when ive gotten bfp as id not tracked before now. Only know ive always been late for AF when first testing

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

2 weeks flys by in the first half of my cycles just never during the 2ww lol, feels like the longest two weeks of my life every cycle. I need to stop being a poas addict!!! Lol :S well we're all still in for a chance until the Witch shows her ugly mug until then good luck ladies. xx

 

[Summer2105]

Hey ladies. I caved once again. Ugh. Why do I torture myself! I used an IC and I thought I saw a shadow of a line. So I got a FRRR out and again I thought I saw a hint of a line but just my line eyes. Ugh I really wish af would just come so I can be done with this cycle already. I can't even be 100% certain that I actually ovulated. Definitely using opks next time.

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Sorry to hear bfn Hun I had line eye the other day lol. BFN for me too but temps still rising!!!

My Ovulation Chart

Going to collect my daughters glasses today from spec savers so gonna pop in boots and grab a early first response or two as there's a boots next door if I can get them I'll test tomoz morning xx

 

[mrsmummy2]

Sorry for the bfns girls
Me too. I wasn't gunna test but temp didnt take a nose dive so thought i would... no luck. Just want AF to come now.