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I have a 10year old. As soon as I found out I was pregnant with her I was head over heels with so much love for her I can't even explain it. She is 100% my entire world. Everything I do is for her. We are incredibly close and have been since the day she was born.
Now I'm pregnant with my 2nd and it's totally opposite. I feel absolutely no bond. Nothing. I don't get the eeeeee I'm pregnant feeling I get the, oh, I'm pregnant feeling followed by a tut or eye rolling.
I'm terrified I tell this to DH as I just don't think he'll understand it or think I want to get rid of the baby. I don't I just have no emotions toward it at right now.
I don't know what to do. I don't feel normal. But I know it is normal.
I have 2 nephew's. Oldest is 5 and I'm so in love with him. SIL had her 2nd baby, my other nephew a few months ago. Seen him once due to covid lockdown but again, absolutely zero interest in him. It's like I don't have enough love for 2 nephew's and worry that's what is will be like when my 2nd is born. It's like I just don't have enough love for 2.
Sorry if this is upsetting for anyone but I needed to share x
I have a 10year old. As soon as I found out I was pregnant with her I was head over heels with so much love for her I can't even explain it. She is 100% my entire world. Everything I do is for her. We are incredibly close and have been since the day she was born.
Now I'm pregnant with my 2nd and it's totally opposite. I feel absolutely no bond. Nothing. I don't get the eeeeee I'm pregnant feeling I get the, oh, I'm pregnant feeling followed by a tut or eye rolling.
I'm terrified I tell this to DH as I just don't think he'll understand it or think I want to get rid of the baby. I don't I just have no emotions toward it at right now.
I don't know what to do. I don't feel normal. But I know it is normal.
I have 2 nephew's. Oldest is 5 and I'm so in love with him. SIL had her 2nd baby, my other nephew a few months ago. Seen him once due to covid lockdown but again, absolutely zero interest in him. It's like I don't have enough love for 2 nephew's and worry that's what is will be like when my 2nd is born. It's like I just don't have enough love for 2.
Sorry if this is upsetting for anyone but I needed to share x