dont think i can cope :-(

[Flowerew]

Sorry for the rant, I'm just really at my wits end. I have a 2 year old, 9 month old and I'm 24 weeks pregnant. My ex still lives in the house with me as we are both on the tenancy agreement and he only does stuff when it pleases him. When he does decide to see to either of the boys its always the eldest. I'm so tired and worn out. My eldest is going through his terrible 2's and all I get off my ex is loads of abuse. I have depression but have had to stop taking my meds whilst pregnant. I'm finding it so hard and just feel like I want to give up

 

[Shezza84uk]

Sending you huge hugs hun is there anyone you can stay with for a while? it's hard enough being separated but still living together is bound to be much harder also you might just need time away to grieve and process everything.

They do have anti depressants safe in pregnancy or you can ask to speak to a maternal well being councillor xx

 

[Flowerew]

Hi and thank you. There is nobody else I can stay with at all. I was taking citalopram for my depression which is safe during pregnancy but had to stop taking it because of the affects it was having. I really hate that I'm stuck with him, he's just so nasty. Tonight he called me a ****** and wished I would die just because I was spending the night at my parents and he wouldn't see his "supposed" children!

 

[SilasLove]

I really think that you need to get yourself out that situation completely. I am from US so am not sure of your government agencies. But you should really look in to getting away from him. Just because you all are not in a relationship anymore does not mean he is not abusing you. (And if he is talking to you like that then he definitely is being abusive!)

And since you two are not in a relationship anymore it is even more sickening and he is a definite scum for talking to you like that, the mother of his children! Get away from him, and I mean it very sincerely. Talk to your leaser and see if they can begin to understand your situation. Can you afford the place on your own? See if you can get him removed. It is no excuse to keep the scum around. If nothing else I am sure they would let you get out of the lease as your safety is much more important than a lease.