This is stressing me out majorly. We are no longer together. Getting my head around having another baby has been and still is hard. He's not a bad guy or anything but he makes me feel very uncomfortable and the thought of him being around me when I'm in labour to be honest makes me feel ill. Is it wrong of me to say I don't want him there? I'm fine with him coming afterwards. I would just feel better if he wasn't present at the birth. I don't know how to tell him.