Oh's little brother ( hes 2 and a half) has no routine whatsoever. He sleeps when he wants in the day, and is up untill how late he wants at night. His mum is up till 1ish in the morning anyway, and most nights hes up with her till that time too playing and all sorts. He hasn't had a routine at all, they've never done a nighttime routine of bath/bottle/bed ect or anything to wind him down. This is just pure crazy to me? I was just speaking to oh about it, and he said ' so is our baby going to have a routine then' and i said yeah she bloody well is, atleast we'll try anyway, she will have a nightime routine and be put to bed the same time everynight so she learns to know when its nighttime and when it's time for bed. He kinda laughed and said, yeah thats going to be pretty hard to keep at and i said yeah it proberly will, but if you persist and do the same thing she will soon learn and get used to it. Then he said ' Well, they sleep in the day so they arn't always going to be tired that time everynight' Am i dreaming when i say about the routine? It just amazes me how they have no routine for him, even ohs neice ( shes one ) is still up now, i said,has she not got a bedtime either? and he said well she obviously just isn't tired. Hmmmm?!?!