Im alittle worried Ill miss this egg this month. FF has me Oing on Sat. DH wont be home until Friday and who knows if we'll have the time to bd with his mom here. Ugh. Maybe Ill pick him up on Thursday...but Id have to wake up at 3 am to take him back. Is it worth it? .....I do like my sleep
That's a shame he wont be around in the lead up to O, but yes I still think its worth trying to get one in on Thursday as the days before ovulation are supposed to be key! and then again when hes back lol
I got my positive OPK just now and we DTD on Monday, so I am guessing ill be ovulating tomorrow or the next day, going to DTD today and tomorrow just to be sure and maybe Friday if we have the energy lol
I just found out his mom wont be here until Sunday. FF on my phone says Ill O on Sunday but online it says Sat. I dont know why its different. So maybe I still have a chance to BD before I O. Im stocked up on 3 different kinds of tests this month! Ive decided that if it doesnt happen this month, Im going to stop trying so hard. Im not going to use OPKs anymore or track my cycles. But my cycles and O are pretty regular so either way Im going to know...ugh. Its just getting to be stressful and not fun anymore. I figure if its going to happen itll happen.
That's fab you have a bit more time !
I've only been trying since August but I've already got a bit obsessed with opks but mostly worrying about when to dtd and how often etc - been driving myself mad
I also know more or less when I ovulate so even if I didn't use the opks id still know when I should be trying and I'd still be over thinking when to dtd - it's a bloody nightmare ha !
Really hoping this is my month as I'm driving myself mad even x
We did it cd12-17, missed cd18 due to schedules, twice on cd 19 and once today Cd20 (Nov 21). It looks like I ovulated yesterday (cd19, Nov 20). So I am pretty sure we are good to go.
I feel like we caught the egg. We shall see. I start testing in 9 days.
Annoyingly o had been a day later than I thought it would be so it's kinda messed up the schedule. Hubby's had to go to work today so hoping for one last attempt tonight and we're done.
I genuinely don't think it's a schedule we could do every month, I think it's actually just added more stress to an already stressful process. In both of my prior pregnancies I definitely wasn't dtd every day (neither planned) so I really don't think it's 'necessary', this month I feel like I've done all I can to make it happen so if this doesn't work I'm dropping opks and just going to dtd for a couple of days around suspected o day and hope.
And if you do miss one day out and aren't pregnant you feel like it's because you missed that one day... Which is crazy!
This is our seventh cycle since June but I count five, due to timing etc. We will be going for testing in Jan/Feb if no luck but hopefully it won't come to that
Looks like I may have FINALLY ovulated, hurrah!
I promised hubby that if I fall pregnant this month I won't bother him for sex until next year