Kiree
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Hi ladies..
I was wondering. When you first came home and were getting breastfeeding established, how did you handle visitors?
More specifically in these scenarios...
Firstly, I can imagine that its not going to be all plain sailing at first and it'll take me a while with techniques and stuff. I dont want to feel under pressure to get it spot on first time, every time. But i know if Im sitting there trying to get baby latched on and not doing very well, i will stress right out if i feel I have an audience.
Secondly, if people just land and I'm in the middle of feeding, obviously baby comes first and i wont be interrupting the feed. If hubby is in then he can take visitors in the other room or whatever, but once he's back at work it may be tricky. Also, I know everyone's different, but there are some visitors I just wont want to BF infront of.
I want to feed on demand so I can't see a way to arrange visits around feeding either.
Do I ignore the door? I don't mind getting the visitors to go in the other room - hey they'll have to deal with it -but will all this disturb baby's feed cos I dont want that.
I was wondering if you girls can give any tips on what you did. And I hope it makes sense cos I feel I've just rambled a bit there..
I was wondering. When you first came home and were getting breastfeeding established, how did you handle visitors?
More specifically in these scenarios...
Firstly, I can imagine that its not going to be all plain sailing at first and it'll take me a while with techniques and stuff. I dont want to feel under pressure to get it spot on first time, every time. But i know if Im sitting there trying to get baby latched on and not doing very well, i will stress right out if i feel I have an audience.
Secondly, if people just land and I'm in the middle of feeding, obviously baby comes first and i wont be interrupting the feed. If hubby is in then he can take visitors in the other room or whatever, but once he's back at work it may be tricky. Also, I know everyone's different, but there are some visitors I just wont want to BF infront of.
I want to feed on demand so I can't see a way to arrange visits around feeding either.
Do I ignore the door? I don't mind getting the visitors to go in the other room - hey they'll have to deal with it -but will all this disturb baby's feed cos I dont want that.
I was wondering if you girls can give any tips on what you did. And I hope it makes sense cos I feel I've just rambled a bit there..