Entering the world of Assisted Conception...like it or not...

I've got to call my doc!

DH will be gone on projected cycle days 12, 13, and 14. I usually O between days 13 and 17. It'd be cutting it close! If AF is late, we may have a chance.

I'm getting my MRI results on April 1, so depending on how those go we may schedule or delay surgery. So many things up in the air right now! :wacko:

Do/can IUI meds delay ovulation?
 
I've got to call my doc!

DH will be gone on projected cycle days 12, 13, and 14. I usually O between days 13 and 17. It'd be cutting it close! If AF is late, we may have a chance.

I'm getting my MRI results on April 1, so depending on how those go we may schedule or delay surgery. So many things up in the air right now! :wacko:

Do/can IUI meds delay ovulation?

oh that's true too - lots of things up the air for you right now but everything is getting you closer to that BFP :hugs:

I've been researching the drugs since my appt yesterday and it seems that if they work correctly, they shouldn't delay ovulation. the only thing I found in the contrary (my background is neuroscience so I read actual research papers lol) are a few cases of the drugs randomly causing an anovulatory cycle (oh no!) but I didn't seem to find evidence of later ovulation .....yet. lol
 
Hi all, sorry I've been MIA. Lots going on lately. So latest update after we cancelled our IUI this cycle. We discussed it and we aren't going to mess around any more with IUIs any more. The multiple follicles, the rolling the dice...just too stressful. So we've decided to go asap to in vitro. I'm just waiting for AF to show, hopefully next week, and hopefully we can do a retrieval in April. Here's where it gets complicated. Depending on when my period is and whether I have residual cysts (side effect from the meds) I may need to go on birth control until May. At my clinic they get all the women on the same cycle and do all their retrievals at the same time. Slightly weird. So it could be as early as April, and as late as May. Now, my insurance has a $5,000 cap on ART, so one retrieval and we are done. Given the less than stellar quality of my ovaries at this time, ideally we want to do a few retrievals so we can have more than one child down the road. So luckily my insurance runs out June 30, and we can then hop on my hubby's July 1, which has $20,000 ART coverage. The the IVF clinic is closed in July for cleaning (seriously WTF IVF?). So then we'd ideally do another retrieval in August. Hopefully between the 2 we'd have a good amount stock piled in case of miscarriage, lack of implantation, or future kids. Crazy we have to do things like this, and I'm beyond frustrated that this could mean we are now talking 5 more months before even the possibility of conceiving. But at this point, I'm so used to things being delayed and out of my control, what's another few months. Then hopefully we can get started having the family we dreamed of. Never imagined insurance games would play into our family planning, but we are very lucky to have the option. Hopefully no hicupps when trying to switch over. There's also the possibility that I could make tons of eggs during the first round and we wouldn't need to do a second retrieval. We shall see. Time will tell.

Bee, welcome to our thread! Sorry you've had to join us under these circumstances, but you are in good hands at the doctors and we are here for you along the way. Will probably see you at a morning ultrasound!

Lemon, I have my fingers crossed for the MRI results. I found that oral meds did not change my ovulation day, but injectables made it earlier since the follicles developed so much faster. Either way, there are meds they can give to to delay or trigger ovulation (crazy) so you might be able to pull it off this month if your doctor's office would allow that.
 
Wow hiker that is a lot going on. I'm not sure why they stuck to the same dose of injections especially when your body responded so well the 1st time. I'm glad your insurance is covering some of the costs. Ours covered nothing. I hope there is no delay and everything works out like you want...I know it doesn't always but you are on the right track and in good hands. You've been on a rough journey and I am going to be thrilled when you are pregnant! You are in my thoughts. It's going to happen, it's just a matter of time at this point. Lots of :hugs:.
 
Hey you all just checking in. Got some serious sore nipples. Going to temp in the morning not sure if I caught the egg as dh didn't dtd that much this month this was more of a test month to see if clomid would work. Somethings going on in there haven't temped opk or took any test been 27 days since I've taken the clomid. I feel like I just got to busy this month but next month deff going to track if it doesn't end in bfp. Really slacked this time nice to know 100mg of clomid works for me 😀
 
Hey ladies, just hoping on here to say hi. I feel like I should join you all since several of you have had good news or at least are moving forward with a good plan in place.

Good luck, Hiker. Hope you can start IVF soon.

I have my first appointment with the RE on Tuesday and will also likely be heading in that direction.

Robinson - hope you have great news!

Bee - nice to see you over here. Got my fingers crossed for your IUI. Hope you have success on the first round. You've been through a lot this year and definitely deserve good news.
 
Hi Bronte, good luck on Tuesday. Let us know how it goes! <3
 
Welcome Bronte!,what's your ttc journey been like so far?
 
Thanks for the welcome. I'm not even sure where to begin with that question, Hiker.

I've been trying to conceive on and off for awhile. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. I got pregnant in 2009, kind of by accident when we weren't really trying but we'd just stopped preventing and were going to see what happened. Unfortunately, that pregnancy was an ectopic and my tube ruptured. It was fairly traumatic for me and we realized we weren't ready to try for real. Then we had a lot happen: moving states, breaking my foot, my husband had to have open heart surgery, new jobs, etc, etc. So fast forward 3 years and we decided to try slowly then. When nothing happened we started timing everything and really TTC for about two years with nothing. I knew it would be harder with only 1 tube but wasn't really expecting that. Finally went to have an HSG test earlier this month and found my other tube is blocked. I wasn't too surprised because I've been having issues for awhile and unusual pains but I don't think I was fully ready to move forward to other options before, so it's probably why I didn't get tested sooner. Now I'm mentally ready to move onto whatever. It's just taken me quite awhile to get here. It's been quite a journey.

Anyway, I'm really enjoying the support on these groups. I wished I would have joined along time ago.
 
Bronte, Wow. You've been through so much. Good luck with your appointment tomorrow. I'll be anxious to hear what the doctor suggests. It feels great to have help and a plan, and I'm sure you'll have one after tomorrow. Keep us posted! We are here for you.

I am excited because I am going to get to do ivf this month! Apparently my period started early enough that I can get on this months schedule. I will be on birth control starting tomorrow. They will be sending me all the meds for this round in a big box. Oh goodie....on April 6 I have to do my Sonohyst, where I think they map out the route for the actual retrieval. They said I have to have a very full bladder. Drink 40oz of water beforehand. That sounds horrible actually. On april 14 or so I will start meds and the every other day early morning ultrasounds and bloodwork routine. Retrieval should be sometime at the end of the month. Yippee!
 
Hiker!!!!! That is amazing news!!! I'm soooo happy the timing is working out, and I've got a really good feeling about this for you!

What do you mean when you say mapping out a retrieval route? I've still got a lot to learn about IVF.
 
Thanks Lemon! I am so excited. SO excited!!!
From what I understand, they have to go in and almost do a test run with all the catheters and the route into my uterus to determine where they will have to go to get the eggs. It's so on the day of the retrieval, they don't run into any roadblocks I guess? Then they can have the exact size catheters and can know exactly where they have to go on the day of the retrieval.

Depending on how many eggs and viable embryos, we'll decide whether to do a fresh transfer or wait until July when we get on my husband's better insurance and do it all again. We want a decent number "in the bank" so to speak so we can have more children. But I could potentially have enough this time. Just have to wait and see.
 
Hiker, such exciting news! Good luck to you. I also hadn't heard of a Sonohyst and a test run so to speak. I have alot to learn as well. Makes perfect sense then and sounds like a good way to be better prepared for the actual egg retrieval. However, 40 oz of water before the procedure doesn't sound fun either. Hopefully it's not too bad. Good luck!
 
Hiker- I am so happy you are starting this process quickly. 40oz of water?...yikes! Your follicles seemed to respond well to the medications the last couple of months, I really hope it's the same case this cycle. I will keep you in my prayers. You've been through enough and your time is coming.
 
Thanks Everyone! Yes I'm very excited and eager to see how my follicles respond. They said they'll be putting me on the maximum so hopefully I'll get like 40 and I'll never have to do this again. Haha. Actually I have no idea what to expect number wise when they pump you up with meds. I'm sure everyone's different, so I'll just have to wait and see! And keep taking my CoQ10 for good eggs and going to acupuncture. :)

Ps I just want to share how much my heart breaks every time I go on Facebook lately. It seems like all the folks who got pregnant around or just befor when I started trying are now posting "Sarah's going to be a big sister in October" photos. Seems like every day there's someone else. Just salt in the wound for how long we've been at this. I know we have a good plan and am trying to focus on that, but it's seeing things like that that bring a reality check to me and make me really sad and desperate. Just wanted to share.
 
When we were referred to the RE and up until my IUI, there were so many pregnancy announcements on Facebook. I'd get so depressed. My cousin actually told me something that is harsh, but really stuck with me..."people will not stop having babies bc you are struggling. That's not the way life works, but your time will come." After the procedure, I hit rock bottom. Being told it wouldn't work killed me. I'm not super religious, but I felt so lost so I just prayed every day. Your time will come and sharing that news will be so much more meaningful than the other announcements. You will definitely have a special bond with your baby too (not that other mothers don't), but you really worked hard to get here. You are working with a good team, I have so much faith that you will get your bfp! I know it's difficult now, but keep your head up high and keep pressing on.
 
hiker - YAY for IVF!!!! I have to email you and Emily - I've been so busy. :sleep: And I hope we run into each other at a morning ultrasound soon! I'm going on the 8th for my first.

So, so weird about the IVF "restrictions". Do you know if it's normal for them to get everyone on the same cycle like that? And closed in July - WTF. Ain't nobody got time for that. :nope:

My DH is going to look into his insurance now. I believe yours and mine are exactly the same. I have the 5,000 cap too but it's 100% covered. Do you know if that's the same with your husbands 20,000? It is def a relief to know that these things can be taken care of with insurance.

I can't wait to hear about this new journey of yours - really so excited for you and based on how well you responded to the meds (when they weren't sure if you would) I think that you've got this in the bag!

I swear everyone around me is pregnant....well actually, they are lol. I work with pregnant women for a living so I'm kind of just numb to it all at this point but the constant adorable announcements on facebook are still rough some days. I've definitely learned a lot from this and will be very cautious with how I proceed when I'm finally pregnant.

I start femara tonight - I'm nervous! My first ultrasound is next Friday. I guess I'm just nervous that if my doc is right and my cervix really is the problem, then I'm prob super fertile otherwise (from getting pregnant on the first try and OH my DH SA came back great), and I'm totally going to have multiples. It's silly to be nervous about that though because all I've wanted is a baby! I guess I'm mostly nervous that there will be 4 mature follies and we will have to cancel. here goes nothing....!
 
Bee- I really think this procedure is going to work. If your cervix is the only problem, you got this. Especially when your dh has a great result. You'll just bypass the issue area and nature will take its course.

I am very excited for you ladies!
 
hiker I'm really happy for you guys! You respond really well to the meds just keep up lots of fluid (they kept telling me that every day). You'll do great and I really hope you can get some in the bank too. My Dr was always telling me to mentally prepare for things not to go our way but I just kept cautiously optimistic. But I think this is your time.

And yeah I know exactly how it feels to get the second baby announcements. It really hurts and you just feel like you guys have been stagnating in this pool of TTC and not getting anywhere and everyone is moving on. Even though I am pregnant I still get annoyed because it feels like we lost so much time. But then I try to remember to keep positive and just be glad I am and be happy. We get out results back soon and I'm just hoping everything is ok.

Bee and everyone else who've posted their stories (I can't remember names!) wow you've all been on such a journey. You will get there.
 

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