special_kala
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I might just be being really silly and ungrateful but..
we went round the inlaws and the SIL was down with her boyfriend. I put River on the floor to have a kick and wiggle and soon as i did they decended!
they all crowd around her talking to her and wiggling fingers and toys at her.
I find it really really uncomfortable and find myself getting really angry, i know i'd hate that so how must River feel. Its way to overwhelming for a baby and tbh over stimulating.
Am i being stupid or would you feel uncomfortable to?
Also i know River much prefers laying on the floor rathr then be held (unless she is tired) so alot of the time i dont offer her to people to hold as IMO shes a baby not a doll.
God xmas day is going to be horrible
we went round the inlaws and the SIL was down with her boyfriend. I put River on the floor to have a kick and wiggle and soon as i did they decended!
they all crowd around her talking to her and wiggling fingers and toys at her.
I find it really really uncomfortable and find myself getting really angry, i know i'd hate that so how must River feel. Its way to overwhelming for a baby and tbh over stimulating.
Am i being stupid or would you feel uncomfortable to?
Also i know River much prefers laying on the floor rathr then be held (unless she is tired) so alot of the time i dont offer her to people to hold as IMO shes a baby not a doll.
God xmas day is going to be horrible