My cousin and I are both trying and some days it feels like a competition.
I just found out that a friend of mine is pregnant tonight. I actually cried! Everyone around me is getting pregnant. I feel like "hey! That was my idea first!" UGH....hopefully it happens for us soon!
I am not upset with someone wanting a second child. I just have a few people I know who keep complaining about not being able to get pregnant again as if they don't have one already like the first one doesn't count. I knew I shouldn't have posted that. Sorry just hard to get out what I am trying to say.
Never mind its still coming out wrong.
I feel your pain. Most of my close friends are pregnant. I am going to a baby shower next weekend and I really don't want to go. It is hard. I also have a daughter from a previous relationship. I want to give DH a baby. I wish it wasn't so stressful.
All of my friends in our friendship group are pregnant and theres 7 of us, im the only one left. Ive been to 3 baby showers in 3 weeks, its heart wrenching. Although I'm genuinely happy for everyone thats pregnant, i find it really hard to not be miserable at the same time. Only 2 of the 7 were actually trying and my husband and I have been trying for what seems like forever.
Hopefully it will be all of us next!
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I feel the same way. I even started watching people are YouTube becoming pregnant. I find myself being super jealous instead of being happy for them like I use too. It hurts. I also get upset of the people who have a child already and complaining how they can't again. I understand its hard but enjoy the ones you have! (No offense to anyone.)
I'm confused, why would you get upset by someone wanting a second child? I enjoy my daughter very much. She has been asking for a brother or sister for awhile but I wasn't in the right relationship for that. Now that I am with DH and we want one together I don't see how I might not be enjoying my 9 year old. Whether it is your first, 2nd, or 5th the hurt and struggle is just the same.
hello all : I understand your feelings I feel like every time I watch tv or my husband and I are out that there are kids surrounding me or every woman is pregnant and its good for them but all I can think about is getting pregnant again, I should say I carried my son to full term and 5 days before my scheduled csection he decided he was coming I was rushed in for and emergency and 16 hrs later he passed away. It has been three months and I know it is still early but I just can't stop thinking about it. A friend of mine says don't put stress on myself it will happen and it is very hard to think that ways .. I guess that is a long winded way to say I understand your feelings and I wish you the best !