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Dollfacee
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who agrees facebook causes nothing but hassle between couples! i think it's time i delete mine, id rather delete it than loose the one i lovee! x
moomin_troll
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my oh refuses to have a facebook as he thinks it causes too many problems, but he doesnt care that i have one.
even tho id never do anything to hurt him n i wouldnt cheat he trusts me way too much lol drives me mad he doesnt get jealous haha
even tho id never do anything to hurt him n i wouldnt cheat he trusts me way too much lol drives me mad he doesnt get jealous haha
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My hubby isn't on there, he claims he was inundated with friends requests....er he got about 7!!! lol So he removed his profile, bless him he is a loser. I'm not sure it would cause hassle between us, but you never know! I think I'd only kick off if was on there and friends with his ex, its not that I have anything to be jealous of, but she was his first love and I dont like the fact that he was with her before me. Its a petty thing, but I'm fairly good at being petty.
I do hear it can cause problems though!!!
I do hear it can cause problems though!!!
gemabee
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facebook is part of the reason i'm a single mummy!!
ha... as in my ex enjoyed flirtin with girls on facebook more than he wanted to have a baby with me.
thats not facebook's fault tho... it was a good thing facebook was there or i'd have never seen him for the kind of person he really is.
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ha... as in my ex enjoyed flirtin with girls on facebook more than he wanted to have a baby with me.
thats not facebook's fault tho... it was a good thing facebook was there or i'd have never seen him for the kind of person he really is.
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Dollfacee
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thats half my problem, as soon as i add a status arguments kick off with the nosey b*******s out there!, me and my other half have had so many issues with jelousy and stuff, i just think its time to cancel it so i can have my boyfriend back with no arguments nothing!
oh and also from facebook someone told my boyfriend he beats me up LOL!! whichis pretty serious, so i think i should just remove it, i know my boyfriend wouldnt hurt a fly! even if he does loose his temper sometimes.
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My husband no longer has facebook... I came in one day and he left his open and I found messages to his EX... I still find it really hard to trust him and it took a LONG time for me to get over it... in fact Im still not over it and I think Facebook is the devils tool... I however am totally addicted and am on there all the time, but I have absolutely nowt to hide!! xx
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i have been there with the flirting issue with my boyfriend too! but he promised if i delete it he will!
depends on what you use your facebook for - we don't really put anything too personal on there besides pictures. and i would never, ever think about posting anything on there about our relationship. i hate seeing people making digs at their partners on there or arguing with eachother on their walls. think it's totally disrespectful!
he does have some very pretty girls on his friend list though, but i don't really get jealous.. though i understand how frustrated people get when their partners are chatting away to their ex-girlfriends on there. think that may bring out the green eyed monster in anyone! x
he does have some very pretty girls on his friend list though, but i don't really get jealous.. though i understand how frustrated people get when their partners are chatting away to their ex-girlfriends on there. think that may bring out the green eyed monster in anyone! x
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somebody said he beat u up or used to beat them up?
its only the internet n if u feel its causing problems delete it, but also u need to look abit deeper and see if there are any underline problems. not sayin there are obviously we all argue.
when im mad at oh i will slag him off on there n ile tell him what ive put hahaha but he just doesnt care, hes abit too laid back.
i was cheated on by my ex so i have trust issues so i do think if oh had a fb n girls added him id be like who the f is that n id go nuts if he had a ex on there. but i have afew exs on my fb but nothing really happened with them i was like 15. so i really need to get over that
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Me and my DH both have FBs. It's never caused an issue between either of us but we are very laid back. We both know each others passwords and encourage each other to feel open with them. Like he'll ask me to check his for him and vice versa.
I think it can only really cause a problem if there are cracks or issues in a relationship already IMHO. EG if one of you is the jealous type then comments and messages could become bothersome... if one of you is a flirt and uses FB wrongly then again it'll cause issues etc etc xx
I think it can only really cause a problem if there are cracks or issues in a relationship already IMHO. EG if one of you is the jealous type then comments and messages could become bothersome... if one of you is a flirt and uses FB wrongly then again it'll cause issues etc etc xx
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It was more the chat about meeting up in a hotel for the afternoon that annoyed me TBH.... it never happened but the discussion about it was there... thats bad enough! x
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altho just remembered his cousin tryed to start shit between us and called my oh n told him i was always slaggin him off on fb n that her n his sisters would always try n stop me n that he needed to sort me out. i hadnt even spoken to her or his sisters on there so she was just bull shitting for no reason. oh just ignored her too.
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I don't ever talk or put anything on FB about mine & OH's relationship... he didn't even have one until I set one up for him!! And he doesn't even use it so defo no issues there, alhto I know he is exactly the same as me! I know it can cause problems tho... u just gotta be careful and selective of who are your ''friends'' and who gets to see what! I know I'm having a complete clear out once my LO is here as there's people on my friend's list that I haven't seen in 10yrs, never mind spoke to them! x
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Dollfacee
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yeah somebody told my boyfriend that i apprently told them that he beat me up, which i think is discusting because he wouldnt beat me up he loves me and his little one, i just think thats too far at the end of the day because he takes it to heart.
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said this in a recent thread elsewhere, but my man and me both have refused to have facebook. It's really negative in my opinion, seems to add only problems to life and relationships and I'm glad I'm not a part of it!!!
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thats awful! id maybe just choose who ur friends are abit more carfuly, but like i said its only fb u dont need it. so no harm in deleting it. x
jollygood000
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I know, I never really told anyone so you ladies r very lucky lol, I was pretty heavily pregnant when I discovered it as well (wasnt that long ago), clearly he had issues I wasnt aware of but we are working through them... some other people often wonder why I randomly slate him in my posts lol x
