Guppy- I def did not go unmedicated lol but the time from labor starting till epidural was not terrible that's why I ask cause people are always like contractons hurt so bad but maybe it is later in labor as I walked in 4 centimeters and got an epidural as soon as I was all hooked up. However labor was God awful. Oh well guess I'll find out in Feb.
I forget, i do apologize, but was your baby posterior? I know quite a few women who, despite getting an epidural, still had a LOADS of back pain because the baby was posterior (OP). Because of the pressure on the spine from the babys head, even an epidural doesn't always help...that really puts it into perspective about how JUST how bad posterior baby back labor is! So i am very hopeful for you, that this time will be much smoother, assuming no OP baby
I was in GOD AWFUL pain around 3-4cm BUT i do know for certain it was because of the OP baby. ...i think women who have not experienced back labor (or even an OP baby, bc OP baby back labor is worse than "regular" back labor), will certainly say "regular contractions" are awful. and certainly, labor is no picnic and contractions will hurt many, but when you have back labor to compare that to or OP baby back labor to compare it too, i think we quickly realize that "regular" contractions are not so bad. But for those who have never experienced back labor, they will probably say how terrible it is in the early hours. Im not saying, for one minute, that "regular contractions" dont hurt! Im sure they can and do for many! But what i am saying, in comparison, "regular contractions" are not as bad as back labor or OP baby back labor (i differentiate between the two back labors because i firmly believe back labor is worse than regular labor, but OP baby back labor is a million times worse than regular back labor).