Favorite parts of being pregnant:
- Experiencing the blessing of pregnancy, the high and low points alike.
- Feeling my baby moving, even when it’s the hiccups!
- Seeing my husband’s eyes light up when he feels her move or when we discuss future plans for our family.
- There’s something exquisitely beautiful about the pregnant female body; I spend time marveling over how my body changes for the life growing within me and I think it’s awesome, and just radiant. I’m not trying to be vain, I swear; I think the same of ANY pregnant woman! xD
- Falling asleep in hubby’s arms while he’s rubbing my tummy. I know, I’m like an oversized lapdog.
- Eating dark chocolate (usually daily lol) without feeling too guilty for not watching my weight.
- Not having to come home from work and go, “Oh but it’s so cold outside, I don’t want to go for a run…” when I’m really not feeling it.
- The sheer excitement of what’s to come in the future, and knowing that I’ll soon be holding the beautiful daughter I’ve been waiting to meet for what seems like forever!
- Maternity pants! Seriously, do I ever have to wear real jeans again? That panel is just awesome, and so much more comfortable!
- Having an excuse to not always wear heels; I love heels and am supposed to wear dressy shoes to work anyway, but it’s nice having an excuse to live in something functional and comfortable for once! Same with clothing too, I get away with being a little more relaxed with my attire because not feeling comfortable is always acceptable by my boss’ standards.
Less exciting parts of being pregnant:
- Stretch marks
I swear I’m not a completely superficial person.
- The extra attention! Which sounds ridiculous because most people love it, but I’m tired of every day having 10 coworkers drill me with the same 5 questions each (how are you, how is baby, how do you feel today, do you need me to tie your shoe, are you eating healthily enough and drinking enough water?), especially when they’re people with whom I’ve never been close and I feel like they’re just being nosy. Plus some of the people around me treat me like I’m now an invalid and it drives me nuts. Plus if one more stranger touches my bump…
xDDDD /rant
- I miss having a nice glass of Riesling with hubby at the end of a rough day. It wasn’t too bad until recently, he’s been drinking a Molson at the end of his stressful nights and saying how relaxing it is… meanwhile I am restless and cannot relax or sleep to save my life! So yes, it’s jealousy, haha.
- Sleeping restfully in generally, and comfortably on my stomach.
- Severe lack of sex happening all up in here.
- Going for runs and participating in other activities that I let fall by the wayside in the beginning, and am now far too out of shape to even attempt.
I'm so sorry to hear of your struggles, Tiger.
I hope they figure something out for you really soon love!