Feelin like in pregnant for nothing

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Feel like im pregnant for nothing :(

I just know this baby isn't going to stick :(
After 4 misscariages 6,6,8 and 9 weeks i just think the chances are slim.. The only hope i have is the fact i have a four year old little girl born at 29 weeks.. Something is obviously wrong inside but all checks have come back fine! 4 misscarriages and a premature birth isn't normal

Sorry for the negativity just needed to write my thoughts somewere
 
I'm so sorry for all your losses. I can see why you would be pessimistic! Have you seen a fertility specialist? I really hope that this baby is in your arms 9 months from now.
 
Sorry for your losses hon xx my SIL had 7 early mc after her dd was born. She eventuslly had a very healthy boy induced at full term. They never worked out what was wrong, just terrible luck xxx
 
Sorry for your losses. Has your progesterone ever been checked as the potential cause of these early miscarriages? My progesterone was 8.8 at 10dpo when I went in for my first beta. My Reproductive Endocrinologist put me on progesterone supplements RIGHT away. We already knew from prior rounds of Clomid as well as an IUI cycle that my body just didn't make enough progesterone regardless of how strong and mature of an egg I ovulated.

My new OBGYN is a STRONG supporter of progesterone supplementation even at levels a regular OBGYN wouldn't worry about it. He requested I have a special progesterone blood test done that had to be sent to a special institute in Omaha, Nebraska. Just to make sure the prometrium my RE put me on was working well enough. They took my blood sample during the 6th week of my pregnancy. It takes 7-10 days to get results back, but the second they had the results my OBGYN was calling to say he was switching me to progesterone injections twice a week. My number was only 9.3 at 6 weeks of pregnancy and it should be closer to 25. He says progesterone is important for the whole pregnancy. My RE was going to take me off progesterone next week, but now I won't be stopping it. I will take these injections until my level is sufficient enough to indicate my placenta has officially taken over with progesterone production. Not enough progesterone production can occur throughout the whole pregnancy, not just in the first trimester like a lot of OBGYNs and REs go with. My RE was fine with the 11 he got last time he tested my progesterone, but my OBGYN was not fine with it. His thought is better safe than sorry, even though I haven't had spotting or cramping.

Anyhow, sorry this is lengthy... but I am a strong believer in progesterone support for those who need it. I have PCOS and because of it, I also have luteal phase defect. Most women's progesterone stays up for 14 days after ovulation, which is sufficient enough time for a baby to implant before the uterine lining starts breaking down. Mine would drop off earlier and AF would show up around 10 to 11 days after ovulation. Fertility meds helped extend me to 14 days, but my progesterone was never higher than 13 even in medicated cycles. So luteal phase defect (aka low progesterone because the corpus luteum is failing to make enough progesterone) is a very real thing and leads to recurrent miscarriage in many women.

If you haven't seen a specialist yet, you may want to find one. You'd be surprised at how many regular OBGYNs just aren't very knowledgeable on the importance of progesterone or they think it's an unproven hoax.
 
Sorry for your losses. Has your progesterone ever been checked as the potential cause of these early miscarriages? My progesterone was 8.8 at 10dpo when I went in for my first beta. My Reproductive Endocrinologist put me on progesterone supplements RIGHT away. We already knew from prior rounds of Clomid as well as an IUI cycle that my body just didn't make enough progesterone regardless of how strong and mature of an egg I ovulated.

My new OBGYN is a STRONG supporter of progesterone supplementation even at levels a regular OBGYN wouldn't worry about it. He requested I have a special progesterone blood test done that had to be sent to a special institute in Omaha, Nebraska. Just to make sure the prometrium my RE put me on was working well enough. They took my blood sample during the 6th week of my pregnancy. It takes 7-10 days to get results back, but the second they had the results my OBGYN was calling to say he was switching me to progesterone injections twice a week. My number was only 9.3 at 6 weeks of pregnancy and it should be closer to 25. He says progesterone is important for the whole pregnancy. My RE was going to take me off progesterone next week, but now I won't be stopping it. I will take these injections until my level is sufficient enough to indicate my placenta has officially taken over with progesterone production. Not enough progesterone production can occur throughout the whole pregnancy, not just in the first trimester like a lot of OBGYNs and REs go with. My RE was fine with the 11 he got last time he tested my progesterone, but my OBGYN was not fine with it. His thought is better safe than sorry, even though I haven't had spotting or cramping.

Anyhow, sorry this is lengthy... but I am a strong believer in progesterone support for those who need it. I have PCOS and because of it, I also have luteal phase defect. Most women's progesterone stays up for 14 days after ovulation, which is sufficient enough time for a baby to implant before the uterine lining starts breaking down. Mine would drop off earlier and AF would show up around 10 to 11 days after ovulation. Fertility meds helped extend me to 14 days, but my progesterone was never higher than 13 even in medicated cycles. So luteal phase defect (aka low progesterone because the corpus luteum is failing to make enough progesterone) is a very real thing and leads to recurrent miscarriage in many women.

If you haven't seen a specialist yet, you may want to find one. You'd be surprised at how many regular OBGYNs just aren't very knowledgeable on the importance of progesterone or they think it's an unproven hoax.

Thankyou very much for taking the time to write me such a long message.. I am going to book a doctors appointment ASAP to get my levels checked, i live in the UK ENGLAND ive never been offered to get my levels checked but blood tests in previous pregnancy a have come back fine im not to sure if the progesterone test is included!

Thank you for the reply ladies xx
 
i've just had the one early loss and its left me quite cynical/pessimistic so can only imagine what it must be like to have had 4! My friend had 5 miscarriages and now has two healthy children, she swears by baby aspirin and thinks thats what helped her pregnancies stick. Worth a shot, you can get it over the counter at the chemists. x
 
I totally agree with previous posters - progesterone supplement and low dose aspirin! I had two miscarriages (7 weeks and 10 1/2 weeks) before DS was born and Im now 11 weeks with number 2 and so far all is going well. Maybe its just luck but for the last 2 pregnancies Ive been on progesterone and aspirin from the start.

Really hope this is a sticky little bean for you. xx
 
Hi Linz. Sorry to hear about your losses. I had four miscarriages and then a healthy baby. I'm pregnant again and still have that fear. I don't think it ever leaves. I agree with other posters about getting progesterone. It's gives some peace of mind if anything. Remember, most people who suffer recurrent miscarriages go on to have a healthy baby.
Just take it day by day.
 
Hi, sorry for your losses :hugs:

I had 3 losses last year after 2 perfectly normal pregnancies. I switched doctor's before I got pregnant with this one, and he put me on Progesterone supplements right away when I got my BFP. He didn't even check my levels because he said with my history of losses and the fact that all my tests came back normal, that if you don't really need Progesterone supplements but you take them anyway, it won't hurt. But if you do need them and DON'T take them, you'll miscarry. So far this pregnancy has been 100% normal for me. I've had 3 ultrasounds so far and everything is going great. My doc said every pregnancy I have from here on out, I'll be on Progesterone supplements.

Good luck, I hope this is your rainbow baby :flower:
 
Yes, totally relate, I'm also a RMCer, 8 now. This year I lost a baby for no reason at 10w in January, had a chemical in March and a natural mc with one that didn't develop properly at 7-8w in May, now pregnant again and hoping it's not for nothing, been pretty much stuck in 1st tri since last year and have monopolised all of dh's holiday off work with miscarriage stuff!!
I've had no testing yet as every time I get a RMC referral I seem to get pregnant and they cancel it, I've slipped through the net since 2010! Have you had any testing yet?

I'm on asprin, progesterone and 5mg folic acid this time, prescribed by my early pregnancy unit who have managed most of my losses. Have you contacted yours perhaps?
 

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