Ok, I am finally trying to put some on a photo sharing site so I can post them here.
DH's 2 best friends' wives want to throw us a post-wedding party. They wanted to do it in a few weeks, but with me being away and then DH being away, we haven't invited anyone yet and since lots of people go away in Aug, we're going to wait longer.
I also wouldn't want to do it in the first trimester in case things go wrong and because I am already starting to feel rubbish! DH is really busy at work now and will be until the end of Oct. I think if we postpone it to Nov or so, we could have a much better party- I'm thinking we can hire out a function room in a pub, get food and some prosecco ordered for guests. I think DH's friends really want to do a speech for him, so we'll have speeches and a cake (since we never had a wedding cake), but no first dance (DH's nightmare) and I'm not getting in my wedding dress again! Maybe we can do this instead of our usual Thanksgiving party.