LynAnne
Mum to 2 Boys
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I've been trying to talk about setting a date for TTC for ages and finally we managed to have a reasonable discussion!
I've been with my DH for nine years on Sunday and married for just a couple of weeks so this definitely isn't something we are rushing into! The other night I just flat out asked him that if we are okay financially and feel ready if we could start trying in January 2015. I said that obviously it didn't have to be definite as money is still a bit of an issue but that I really want to be trying at some point at least in 2015 and he said yes! The plan is to revisit the idea of TTC in January, see how we are getting on in life, work out the sums and decide from there.
I know it isn't definite yet but it's the closest I've ever been to a date which is very exciting.
I've been with my DH for nine years on Sunday and married for just a couple of weeks so this definitely isn't something we are rushing into! The other night I just flat out asked him that if we are okay financially and feel ready if we could start trying in January 2015. I said that obviously it didn't have to be definite as money is still a bit of an issue but that I really want to be trying at some point at least in 2015 and he said yes! The plan is to revisit the idea of TTC in January, see how we are getting on in life, work out the sums and decide from there.
I know it isn't definite yet but it's the closest I've ever been to a date which is very exciting.