First AF after mmc

[amytrisha]

CBD - Thought you'd ran off & left us then!! The 3 bumps sounds brill! Hopefully me and Tek will get our BFPs soon, we need to go through us together haha!
Aww, I feel bad saying it but I don't blame either of you for 'keeping your distance' I'm gonna do the same when I get my BFP, either way it'll hurt if it happens but if your kinda keeping the fact that it could in your head it might soften the blow? That's the way I see it. I'm deffo keeping mine a secret til I start showing majorly!
Ooh 10 days til your appt! Keep yourself occupied so they fly by I've got a feeling everything will be good, I knew it'd be your month! I can't wait til we all get to discuss baby names & nurserys with each other

 

[CatchBabyDust]

oh Amy I would never leave u guys!!! Ever!! Because we've been there for each other..i swear i feel like if i didnt make friends like u i dont know if i was gona be strong enough to even ttc again... I am grateful to have met u both...And yes me and hubby are keeping in our heads that this is not for granted because it might make it less hard if something bad ever happens! I pray to god it all stays well! and yes i remember u telling me that its my month and i was in denial..as usual i keep my head clear so i dont get overexcited lol.. As a matter of fact, i also have good feelings for u! How long is ur cycle? why dont u just test? omg us librans! haha..so patient with important things..and the less important we are never patient hehe..

 

[amytrisha]

Aww hun!
I'm not testing cos I know AF is gonna come! I'm just impatiently waiting for it and patiently not testing I'll buy some tomorrow if she doesn't turn up! I hope she does tbh, I've not had the healthiest month and wanted to do a total detox next cycle!
At your appt will you get a scan? Or will they just book you a scan date?

Oh dear me & OH have just spent the majority of this weeks wage on a new games console he's older than me, yet he's just as childish! We're never gonna grow up LOL.

 

[tekkitten]

Ahhh, i hear you on the detox!

I am not doing a great job though But I am going to start completely cutting out bad things after O every month now. Keep er safe, ya know?

I'm excited for your apt CBD. I think I know how you feel, cause I think I will feel the same way when I get a bfp.

Tbh, when I do, I am not even telling Loch. You guys will know, but I am not telling anyone in real life right away. So many people knew about the first one that it just makes things awkward. I would rather people know on here, that understand and have been through what we have been through, and therefore can understand and be supportive if something else happen.

Yes, very apprehensive situation for us isn't it! But I am praying for you and hoping its a nice sticky one

 

[tekkitten]

And OMG "us librans", are you both Libras?? I am too!! If you guys are both Libras that is just toooooo weird! And awesome!

 

[amytrisha]

I'm gonna feel so bad if I do get my BFP this month I've been naughty haha! But I suppose if I was pregnant the most I'd be is 3-4 weeks.. Last time my LO died at 5 weeks but I didn't MC til 8, at 5 weeks is when their heart starts forming so I always wonder if something happened to its heart? Like not enough oxygen or something.

All 3 of us are libras!!!

 

[tekkitten]

OMG!

We just had a 7.7 earthquake under 200km from here, and got a tsunami warning! we're right on the coast, and it was on the other side of an island near us. We almost had to flee up the mountain, it was crazy Things are ok though, however, every time I drink out of my Oktoberfest mug I will be reminded of it

 

[CatchBabyDust]

TEK!! Omg thats scary about the earthquake!!! I get so scared of these things and living by the coast! I'm glad ur alright!! Scaryy.. and yes the 3 of us are libras!! IT IS so weird!!! but awesome! haha.. I agree with u about not telling people..but i think im gona tell my mom eventhough she's a gossip bless her heart...haha i'm gona make her promise first..i need her to help me around the house also come with me to first appointment for support..my hubby will not be able to handle it..

Amy- dont get me started on how my month was! I was on vacation and did everything wrong!! Everything!! I'm so scared... i even went on that 5D cinema thing and it was a roller coaster and i was being shook lol like crazy!! and i went on it TWICE! Also , i did a bunch of diving into the swimming pool..omg looking back..im more worried now!! About my first appointment..i will get a scan hopefully! The dr actually told me i could come in at 7 weeks..which is next week..by that point she'll be able to see more ..

:/ im soo nervous ..i will definitely come have a chat with u before the appointment for support ..!

 

[amytrisha]

Tek - :O That's scary! I'm so glad I live in the UK, I've never experienced an earthquake! I'm scared of thunder and lightening when I'm on my own so imagine me in an earthquake bless . Glad your ok!!!

CBD - Ah don't be worried! I'm your sure bean is mega sticky & it'll be fine sorry if I worried you! Ahhh you'll most probably be able to see babys heart beat at 7 weeks! I know your not getting too excited for it but I'll get excited for you instead lol We'll give you all the support you need hun, us 3 libras gotta stick together

AFM - Still no AF.. I have had a lot more AF pains today though, hm! OH is telling me to just wait, he thinks my AF is gonna come too but I think he's given up all hope of a BFP anyway to be honest he just doesn't think it's gonna happen, it took us 9 months to get my BFP with minimoden, and now it's been 7 months since the MC.. My due date is in 10 days

 

[CatchBabyDust]

Amy- Test test test! R u late for af now?? Just test..hopefully this is ur month before "the would've been date!" ..tesstt i have a good feeling xox

Tek- I hope u're alright.. I heard on the news that there are warnings about a tsunami in coasts in the US..Stay safe hun!

AFM- Went out today to my in laws, she had a bbq party hehe.. we enjoyed it but its so hard keeping the pregnancy secret! Speaking of secrets, I secretly know that my hubby's Cousin's WIFE lol (sorry for the confusion) is also pregnant...man is she hiding it well! They havent told anyone but her hubby told mine in secret .. plus he's been telling him that as soon as they get married they'll ttc..and they got married in september..so i guess he knocked her up then.. Meaning we got pregnant around the same time.. Its interesting cause i wana see when she'll start telling people lol.. Maybe she'll tell early cause its her first pregnancy and we all know the excitement of rushing and telling people.. Learnt my lesson! Plus update me both of u...Tek about the tsunami..and Amy about the testing!! Test test test! Praying for uuuu

 

[tekkitten]

CBD - It is all good here Just ripples. We were right in danger zone, but we have several islands kind of guarding our harbour, so that was good! Made for an interesting evening though. We didn't feel it because we were in a hall with a lot of people... someone pulling out their chair could have felt like an earthquake. I kind of wish I had felt it!

Amy - I totally want you to test I think its because I am totally in opposite land from you (on cd15 right now), so I want to get excited vicariously through you I don't know what it is, but testing for pregnancy is so fun!

 

[amytrisha]

Well I tested and got a .. Had serve tummy ache earlier it was absolutely killing me made me feel so sick too don't know what's wrong with me but AF still hasn't shown up and cramping is still on & off, I'm kinda getting worried.. Hoping AF comes in the morning instead, we've bd'ed and still nothing! Grrrr..

 

[carlywarly]

Well I tested and got a .. Had serve tummy ache earlier it was absolutely killing me made me feel so sick too don't know what's wrong with me but AF still hasn't shown up and cramping is still on & off, I'm kinda getting worried.. Hoping AF comes in the morning instead, we've bd'ed and still nothing! Grrrr..

Awh hun I'm sorry...hope you get one or the other soon...limbo is the worst!! Hope you don't suffer anymore pain either

 

[tekkitten]

Lame! Maybe your sick, or stressed, and its delaying it? :S

 

[CatchBabyDust]

Aww sorry dear! Damn af.. I did something last month and told tek about..i dont know if u read it...try warm water , one tea spoon of cinnamon and one table spoon of honey..mix it up very well and drink the whole thing up! Its so yummy!... Drink it twice a day till it comes..and relax ...have a warm bath too.. Hope u get ur bfp soon! Get ready for ur next cycle..sending lots of babydust ur way

 

[amytrisha]

Carly - I don't really want my BFP this month hun! I'm aiming for next month & thank you!

Tek - I had one day of stress this cycle, like reaaally stressed but could one day really affect it?

CBD - What does the drink do? I can't get ready for my next cycle without my AF I feel like paddying LOL!!

 

[CatchBabyDust]

Dr gave me this home remedy..she said it helps the uterus shed faster if there is an impending af that wont just go down.. It always works for me after a day or two..but since ur waiting anyways, u might as well enjoy a warm drink. It must be powdered natural cinnamon and not a Tea bag one...its really addictive lol..well i really like it..hope u do too..

 

[tekkitten]

I guess it depends how bad the stress was! Sometimes even if you dont feel stressed out anymore your body still behaves like it is.

Oh, guess what? Remember Lochs "friend" that made the rude comment? He tried to apologize finally (a month later... too late!) and he started with "so apparently I owe you an apology...." What a jerk! I told him I didn't want to do that right then, as I was sitting with Loch. Its not a 3 way conversation, and he came up while I was having a beer and appy with my man. Ugh.

 

[amytrisha]

PHEW!
Ladies AF arrived about 20 minutes ago lol! Thank God! Sorry if it seemed as though I was over reacting I read online that if your cycle changes from what your used to you should contact a doctor lol, good job I didn't bring on November eh!

CBD - You had any extra symptoms recently?

Tek - You'd think he would of asked you to come to one side for a chat or something instead of interrupting you & doing it infront of an audience :S men just don't think at all do they! Hope you had a nice night with Loch though?

 

[tekkitten]

Oh yes, lovely night lol. Things are good with him and I, and thats all that really matters. I could care less about his less than stellar friend.

Yukky monday! Hope you girls have a good day

I started my morning by putting salt instead of sugar into my coffee... not nice. Not nice at all.