First AF after mmc

[tekkitten]

Oooh, I love the red seats! Super awesome

Mine is a 2012 cruze in colbalt blue eco friendly version!

 

[tekkitten]

Hi ladies, Im new here so wanted to introduce myself. I had a m/c Oct 17 and bled for about a week. I haven't had my first AF yet but felt ovu pains around the 1st of Nov and got a positive OPK so we DTD many times. I've been POAS since 10DPO but they've all been BFN. I guess its a sign that I should wait until I have at least one cycle before TTC again. So bummed though. Really want a BFP again.

Welcome to the thread girly

I totally understand, because I was the same after my m/c. Its been 3 months now, and I have come to a place of peace-ish about it, but I really wanted to be pregnant again right away. I had a positive opk 20 days post m/c, but after charting for a few months I realize that I never actually O'd, and that the opk was probably just whacked out hormones.

Anytime you want to chat, we're here! This is a great group of girls, and we all know the feeling

 

[wannabewillow]

Hi everyone! Silly wee question. I had a MMC at 9+6, I then had a D&C on 27th September. I haven't bled at all apart from the night after my D&C! Me and DH decided to go for it again. I had +ve OPKs 5 mornings in a row two weeks ago, so we got down to it. Now, my boobs are achy, I'm spotting, I'm grumpy, my skin is a mess, but no BFP and no AF. I think I'm out of the game for this cycle, but do you guys reckon I'll have long to wait for my first AF? This is a pain in the arse! Xxx

 

[tekkitten]

Its different for everyone, I think the average is 4-6 weeks, but I have heard 8 weeks sometimes?

 

[amytrisha]

Tek - that's what I love about it haha! Ooh I've never heard of one of them, I shall google when I'm home! How's you?

Star - my MMC was in April, I've still not conceived but I'm just trying to chill out about it, it took me 9 months to get my bfp. We're all in different parts of our journey, were all here to help each other along I hope you get your bfp soon!!

Willow - it really does vary, mine was 4 weeks after but it sounds like your af is coming, I spotted for a bit before my af arrived x

 

[emergRN]

Hey ladies.. Thought it would join this one... Just got AF today for the first time after mc (9w5d). Feel positive about the future!

 

[emergRN]

Amytrisha, I want a BFP for Xmas too

 

[tekkitten]

amy, I am good! Just patiently waiting for O, you know how it is How are you? How many dpo are you? I think I have about another week to go, but things are so busy I dont even know how I am going to fit the bding in. But by george I will make it work dammit!

emerg - I like your attitude! In situations like these you have to think positive. Lets hope we have more christmas BFPs

CBD - where are you?? How are things?? Don't forget about us over here

 

[carlywarly]

Hi everyone! Silly wee question. I had a MMC at 9+6, I then had a D&C on 27th September. I haven't bled at all apart from the night after my D&C! Me and DH decided to go for it again. I had +ve OPKs 5 mornings in a row two weeks ago, so we got down to it. Now, my boobs are achy, I'm spotting, I'm grumpy, my skin is a mess, but no BFP and no AF. I think I'm out of the game for this cycle, but do you guys reckon I'll have long to wait for my first AF? This is a pain in the arse! Xxx

It really is different for everyone hun...mine was an extreme case, but I didn't get AF for almost 4 months after my natural mc. I am sure yours will be sooner than that though...sorry for your loss and good luck x

 

[amytrisha]

Tek - I'm due for af in 10 days.. Anxious wait! I'm all good though . Yes you have to find a way to get bd'ing in, even if you only sleep for 2 hours a night operation Christmas bfp!!!

Emerg - it's good how positive you are!! Me and Tek are totally aiming for bfps for Christmas, if I get a Christmas bfp it'd be on New Year's Day, I'm excited! Good luck hun

 

[tekkitten]

Tee hee, it might just come to that!

We got it in this morning, which makes me happy! Going to start the Robitussin tomorrow, so that should be interesting and gross! I'm going in with guns blazing haha ;p

 

[amytrisha]

I hope the robitussin works for you!!

How boring is it waiting for af feels as though its taking twice as long this month!! And I've just kindly been told its 34 days til Christmas.. 34!!! I need to start shopping

 

[tekkitten]

Oh my goodness, that seems so soon! I have been in musical and report card mode... then only time I think of Christmas is when I am thinking of what seasonal activities I can do with my class

 

[amytrisha]

What age are the kids you teach? I'd love to be able to make Christmas tree decorations with my LO, hopefully in a couple of years ill be able to!!

I'm so unorganised at Christmas time

Carly & CBD how're you two preggos?

 

[carlywarly]

What age are the kids you teach? I'd love to be able to make Christmas tree decorations with my LO, hopefully in a couple of years ill be able to!!

I'm so unorganised at Christmas time

Carly & CBD how're you two preggos?

Hey All's good here thank you 14DPO today (AF due 2 days ago)...and just got my progression this morning I am praying all will be OK with this one xx

How are you?? I am sure you will be making tree decs with your LO in the not too distant future...it's a lovely thought xx

 

[Laureen416]

Hello everyone and Happy Holidays!!

I had a mc on 11/5 at just 7 weeks. It was only a sac though. My question is, my cycle always started on the 16th/17th, will it go back to that or will I start based on my mc day? Anyone know if theirs changed at all or went back to the original cycle days? Thank you!

 

[carlywarly]

Hello everyone and Happy Holidays!!

I had a mc on 11/5 at just 7 weeks. It was only a sac though. My question is, my cycle always started on the 16th/17th, will it go back to that or will I start based on my mc day? Anyone know if theirs changed at all or went back to the original cycle days? Thank you!

More than likely it will change hun...I don't know by how much etc but it could be completely different. I had a 14 day LP before my mc but now it's 12. I used to ov cd 16 but then after mc it went to cd 19-21. It could stay the same though...but it's just going to be a matter of wait and see. Sorry for your loss! x

 

[Laureen416]

Hello everyone and Happy Holidays!!

I had a mc on 11/5 at just 7 weeks. It was only a sac though. My question is, my cycle always started on the 16th/17th, will it go back to that or will I start based on my mc day? Anyone know if theirs changed at all or went back to the original cycle days? Thank you!

More than likely it will change hun...I don't know by how much etc but it could be completely different. I had a 14 day LP before my mc but now it's 12. I used to ov cd 16 but then after mc it went to cd 19-21. It could stay the same though...but it's just going to be a matter of wait and see. Sorry for your loss! x

You're right. One big waiting game. We started trying again after my pregnancy tests were faint. OPK was positive (probably hcg) and started fading and then going up again just recently the last couple of days. Yesterday and today I have been crying over everything. I hope it's not the start of major PMS!!!! Yikes!!

 

[carlywarly]

Hello everyone and Happy Holidays!!

I had a mc on 11/5 at just 7 weeks. It was only a sac though. My question is, my cycle always started on the 16th/17th, will it go back to that or will I start based on my mc day? Anyone know if theirs changed at all or went back to the original cycle days? Thank you!

More than likely it will change hun...I don't know by how much etc but it could be completely different. I had a 14 day LP before my mc but now it's 12. I used to ov cd 16 but then after mc it went to cd 19-21. It could stay the same though...but it's just going to be a matter of wait and see. Sorry for your loss! x

You're right. One big waiting game. We started trying again after my pregnancy tests were faint. OPK was positive (probably hcg) and started fading and then going up again just recently the last couple of days. Yesterday and today I have been crying over everything. I hope it's not the start of major PMS!!!! Yikes!!

It is possible to get pregnant before your cycles regulate...or even before 1st af...so maybe, just maybe? Did the tests fade completely? If not then apparently you cannot ovulate while hcg is present xx

 

[amytrisha]

Lauren - it probably will change like Carly said, it sucks! My af came 4 weeks after my mc started.. I used to get af on the 1st of the month but since the mc it's between 24th-29th. There's still every chance you could get your bfp! Good luck hun

Carly - yeah I'm brill and I'm glad everything is going well! I can't believe you found out so early! It is a lovely thought for the future Christmas isn't really Christmas without children running around! then again my OH counts as a child