five year old missing!!

[suzib76]

I honestly don't know anymore

This^

Even as late on as this afternoon I kept expecting them to find her alive, that feeling of hope has been replaced with something much worse, I think it is too late now. This thread is possibly the best discussion I have seen, with the exception of web sleuths, since the poor wee mite went missing and I am thankful to everyone on here as I really feel it has helped everyone to be able to chat freely

 

[Samemka]

Can't believe the comments I'm reading on a facebook status about this. Not actually come across a thread blaming the parents until now & I can feel my rage building! Hate people with a houlier than thou attitude - one of my 'friends' is saying it's 100% the parents fault & spouting off, once I've said my peice I think she'll be deleted. Ugh.

 

[Tasha]

xprincessx, I have to say the thought has crossed my mind too

mumj

Jem you pretty much summed up how I am feeling. I dont get much sleep last night again, so I took a step back a bit today cos well even though I have nothing to do with April in any shape or form, it has really got to me. More than any other abduction case. I am not sure why.

suzi. Oh and I totally agree it has helped to talk freely.

 

[KittyVentura]

Kitty this must be hard for you.

How are you all feeling today girls, I know a lot of us were emotional yesterday? ANd have your gut feelings changed?

I know some people dont like speculation but honestly this thread has really helped me in the last few days, being able to share my worries, theories, worst fears etc with girls who arent laughing nor saying well you dont even know her.

Honestly, it's not too bad. It just brings the same, scared and sicky feeling. So much feels the same you know, so I can't help but imagine a similar outcome and it breaks my heart.

I slept as badly as I thought I would have. I'd love to be able to take a sleeping pill to to tonight but daren't when home alone with them... And Fins had a very upset tummy this eve so need to wake quickly is he does.

How are you holding up love?

I agree it is nice (for want of a better word) to have people who feel similarly about it all to talk to and admit the strength of how I feel. Hugs to all xxx

 

[nikkip75]

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[Tasha]

Honestly, it's not too bad. It just brings the same, scared and sicky feeling. So much feels the same you know, so I can't help but imagine a similar outcome and it breaks my heart.

I slept as badly as I thought I would have. I'd love to be able to take a sleeping pill to to tonight but daren't when home alone with them... And Fins had a very upset tummy this eve so need to wake quickly is he does.

How are you holding up love?

I agree it is nice (for want of a better word) to have people who feel similarly about it all to talk to and admit the strength of how I feel. Hugs to all xxx

Yes, much of it must make you feel right back there. The outcomes being the same is a thought that must be difficult to squash down for you.

Sorry you slept bad, did you have your babies in bed with you in the end? I hope Fin gets better soon.

Im okay, taking this to heart much more than previous abductions and I am not sure why.

It is as you say 'nice'. I am glad I have had you girls

 

[mumoffive]

Each to there own ideas of parenting. I personally wouldnt let my girl who is 5 out of the garden but i do know that there are parents where i live that let their 4 year old out up and down the street where they cant see their child. Its all about what they think is appropriate for thier child, level of maturity and where they stay. Its not the parents fault and it shouldnt be entertained. They thought it was right for their girl to play like she did. Its a tragedy what has happened but children can also get snatched from safe places. Its the f***ed up people that take them that is where the blame lies and society for not locking those who have history of this behaviour away.

 

[baby D]

Kitty, I'm not sure what happend with you hunnie, but it sounds like it was something awful so hugs and love to you! Hope you sleep better tonight x

 

[Samemka]

((((hugs))))) to you Kitty. I don't know about your situation but it sounds like all this will bring back some difficult memories. Hope you are ok.

 

[kaths101]

All along I didn't think this would end well, little girl goes missing isn't found or handed back within a few days. I think him walking away from the river is a clue and the police seem to be scouring the river a lot. unfortunately if that is where she is ... They might never find her. Her poor poor parents!

I'm sorry if this upsets anyone but it's how I feel

 

[KittyVentura]

Honestly, it's not too bad. It just brings the same, scared and sicky feeling. So much feels the same you know, so I can't help but imagine a similar outcome and it breaks my heart.

I slept as badly as I thought I would have. I'd love to be able to take a sleeping pill to to tonight but daren't when home alone with them... And Fins had a very upset tummy this eve so need to wake quickly is he does.

How are you holding up love?

I agree it is nice (for want of a better word) to have people who feel similarly about it all to talk to and admit the strength of how I feel. Hugs to all xxx

Yes, much of it must make you feel right back there. The outcomes being the same is a thought that must be difficult to squash down for you.

Sorry you slept bad, did you have your babies in bed with you in the end? I hope Fin gets better soon.

Im okay, taking this to heart much more than previous abductions and I am not sure why.

It is as you say 'nice'. I am glad I have had you girls

Yeah, I mean even as much as her knowing the guy. Being friends with his step daughters. Getting in the car willingly etc. With the exception of the fact Sian was a young woman, so much of this is the same. Then I get thinking of how she was found naked but there was no signs of any sexual attack taking place etc. makes me remember that people dont need a motive, these people can do thicgs with no reason other than to do what they do you know? The judge put a spevial gagging order in place to prevent the press talking further about it, so looking forward to it finally going to trial in Feb and the details and reasonings going public to close some answers swimming around.

I got her into bed with me but not him, I went to but he looked so comfy and happy ai couldn't move him.

I'm so sorry you're taking it so much to heart, I think it's because you are such a loving mother and caring person xxx

 

[TaylorsMummyx]

Any news?

 

[Tasha]

Yeah, I mean even as much as her knowing the guy. Being friends with his step daughters. Getting in the car willingly etc. With the exception of the fact Sian was a young woman, so much of this is the same. Then I get thinking of how she was found naked but there was no signs of any sexual attack taking place etc. makes me remember that people dont need a motive, these people can do thicgs with no reason other than to do what they do you know? The judge put a spevial gagging order in place to prevent the press talking further about it, so looking forward to it finally going to trial in Feb and the details and reasonings going public to close some answers swimming around.

I got her into bed with me but not him, I went to but he looked so comfy and happy ai couldn't move him.

I'm so sorry you're taking it so much to heart, I think it's because you are such a loving mother and caring person xxx

messed up world we live in. That is interesting about the gagging order, must be frustrating for all who knew Sian and care about her, but can totally see why a judge would do it. Dont want the person responsible to not go to prison because of something the media print. I do wonder if a similar approach will have to be taken at some point with this case.

Glad you had snuggles with one of your babies

Any news?

No

 

[RedRose]

This is gonna sound backwards but bear with me- I feel worse knowing that the police have scaled up the search and have asked for volunteers again. By Tuesday night I was resigned to the awful thought that she was in fact murdered, but somehow now the idea that she might still be alive.. out there somewhere.. it's just too hard to think about if that makes sense.

 

[mumj18]

Hope you're ok Tasha, you've been quiet today x

 

[FlowerFairy]

still no news. Been trying to keep a step back this evening. Another cold night x

 

[Tasha]

This is gonna sound backwards but bear with me- I feel worse knowing that the police have scaled up the search and have asked for volunteers again. By Tuesday night I was resigned to the awful thought that she was in fact murdered, but somehow now the idea that she might still be alive.. out there somewhere.. it's just too hard to think about if that makes sense.

This makes perfect sense to me, the thought of her having died is too much to bare but at the same time so is the thought of a tiny girl out there alone, scared, tired, thirsty, hungry and possibly in pain. No scenerio is a good one right now other than there was someone else and they are looking after her. Not ideal cos she would still be scared etc but better than the alternatives.

Hope you're ok Tasha, you've been quiet today x

Thank you sweetie. Are you okay?

 

[Tasha]

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/9588326/Bridger-at-Aprils-school-parents-evening.html

 

[Bittersweet]

Omg :/ x

 

[Jem_x3]

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/9588326/Bridger-at-Aprils-school-parents-evening.html

I've heard conflicting reports about whether April was with the parent's at the school or not. Other parents who went said they all took their kids, but some newspapers are reporting April was supposed to be being watched by the daughter. Either way, Bridger is coming out as quite an aggressive character. They interviewed a contractor earlier who said he threatened them when they asked him to slow down when he was zooming past in his vehicle because people were working along the roads