This is a long thread so sorry for the rant. Also opinions on what happened would be greatly appricated. I told MIL that I no longer wanted to hear about anything that happened to ex and unless it was affecting the welfare of baby then tell me NOTHING. One minute she saying that when he seen the 3d pic of the baby and threw it across the table, then she told me that she thinks that once LO is born he will see baby and realise he made a huge mistake and want me back. My reply, I dont give FUCK what he wants, I dont want him back. Anyway next day (yesterday) he sends me a text saying that he seen the pic and thought baby was gorgeous, and could be know the sex, and that he wanted to talk to me about getting stuff in for the baby and arrangements that needed made for when it comes along. I took the mature way and foned him, Im not getting into arguements over texts. he started on a rant, so I lost the head and said, U know where I live, U wanna talk about ur child then be at my house for 4! Much to my surprise he turned up, I showed him the dvd of baby, he sat like a little boy with his mouth hung open watching it, proceeded to tell me how much he wants to be involved and what he wants to do with baby and all this rubbish, ( i wont hold my breath) He then went on to talk about his relationship!!! WTF!!! About how hes moved on and is happy now, and how he realised after 5 years that we Just werent suited. I gave off to him that he hasnt even as much as gave me 50p towards a blanket for his baby. Then he text me today saying that although he seemed disappointed about the sex of the baby he is genuinely pleased that it was just shock, and he loves the name I have picked. And to make him a list of things that I need for my bag and babies hospital bag and he will get them. What u make of it all, and apologies for long post.