For those who have never had a BFP

[Born2BeAMommy]

Hey everyone- I would like to give a different view. I have been ttc for 2 years now and felt exactly the same way. Until I had a miscarriage. I had a missed miscarriage at 6 weeks in July and I was quite devastated to say the least. It did give me a lot of happiness in the 1 week that I was pregnant but now I am not sure if I can get pregnant again. Infact, I am very scared that I will have another miscarriage. Its a very painful experience both physically and emotionally and the worst part is that even if u had a miscarriage it DOES NOT MEAN you can get pregnant.

I'm a believer that if you have information, you should share it, and reading this I just have to share it with you!!

https://www.totalityofbeing.com/FramelessPages/Articles/IncFertility.

I have been taking Maca for months now, not only does it help with libido, energy, and helping with your fertility, it is also scientifically documented to help women carry pregnancies to term. So in essence, it can help you to conceive and carry the baby to term!!
Really love to share that information with whomever I can, and I really wish you the best of luck!

 

[lozmo]

Me neither never had one measly sniff of a BFP in 3 years ttc with an ex and now two years with current dh.

I've seen lots of BFPs develop before my eyes at work but it's never my wee!

 

[Jasiellover]

Same here! 2 years and no BFP. Can't wait for my first doctors appoint

 

[fairy_gem]

Born2beamummy - I only have 1-2 AF's a year so do not ovulate, i have PCOS, could Maca help me?. Thanks.

The link doesn't work hun.

x

 

[RebaRezzelba]

onto month 33 (OR 34 i'VE LOST COUNT) for me and not even a hint of a BFP in all those months - makes me think they dont actually exist..... and that I am 100% infertile and will never have a child!!!!

 

[brumbar]

same here.. 33 months now ....including 2 ivf cycles and nada! Whiter than white hpt not even a hint of a line.... Well, i did poas after the trigger on my first ivf cycle just to see what it looks like, but that doesn't count!

 

[stellargaze]

I just hit the two-year mark. I also have PCOS, but I eat healthy and don't fit the profile. I can't even imagine anymore that a second line really can appear. Nearly all of my friends got pregnant on the FIRST try. Five of them, just off the bat. I don't think they understand that it just doesn't work for some people. I am about to give up hope as AF is due tomorrow and I already feel it coming...

 

[Helen76]

Stellargaze - hope the witch doesn't show for you tomorrow.

I've just had a blood test following my first round of IVF and my HCG levels showed as 29 when they should have been 50 plus. I have to go back on Thursday because it might have been that my embryo/s have implanted late but it's also likely that they implanted but have now failed.

I think that means that I might have been pregnant even if only for a couple of days! I was so determined to do things properly so I didn't test early but if I had then I might have got that elusive BFP, doh!

I've got one internet cheapie in the house which I'm going to try tomorrow, so you never know I might get my BFP even if I subsequently don't go on to have a pregnancy. Does that make me crazy??!!

Will keep you posted.

H xx

 

[Please]

Hi Girls

I know how you all feel, Me & DH have been TTC our first baby for 21mnths. Since my last period I just can't stop thinking that I will never see a BFP, I just need to know that I can get pregnant even if it takes another yr I just need to know it will happen.

Good luck to you, we all deserve this.

 

[Helen76]

I used an IC this morning and I had the faintest of faintest BFPs!!! I'm guessing that as it was so light it was the hcg on its way out of my system but still nice to see the two lines lol. Hope it's not the only one I'll ever see in my lifetime!

H x

 

[stellargaze]

Hope it works out helen! Sadly, af came just as expected for me. Going to try and get appt at docs tmw, but think hubby will have to go for another test first since they misplaced the results from the first one. I have to say, I still get my hopes up each month, but at the same time when it comes to taking the tests, I really can't imagine seeing that extra line...

 

[ineedaseed]

been ttc since june 2006 and never a sniff of a line either
starting to give up hope especially as fs has suggested i have unexplained fertility, just what i need

 

[Helen76]

You think there'd be something they could do to figure out why it's not happening for us, with all the scientific developments. It's just so frustrating!!

H xx

 

[ineedaseed]

thats the most upsetting thing is all the waiting, so frustrating