lexi88
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I know a few girls really wanna know how to do it
some frown apon it
some are just interested in how you do it
Just found out a great explenation
Well i found my cervix easy peesy today (a sign maybe
lol) and felt the hole.. but TMI SORRY ... my 2nd finger couldnt reach it
no DIY sweep myself
so back to bouncin on my ball !!!
some frown apon it
some are just interested in how you do it
Just found out a great explenation
Basically 2 fingers in with lube, as high as he can go, feel out for a round bump, it will have a dimple indent in middle. The size of the dimple in the middle that he can put two fingers on will tell you how ready you are.
If he cant even reach cervix bump then its too high ( i doubt that will be your case as you are nearly due)
Once he has two fingers in the dimple bit if he can fit them in ( thats 2cm dilated if he can) he needs to keep his fingers in the dimple and then use them to stretch by moving each finger away from the other so fingers together to fingers apart posistion and do it all the way round the cervix in a circular motion. He will probably feel what feels like a bit of string running round the edge of this little circle, that the bit your aiming for, just get him to stretch it out as much as he can without hurting you.
do it for a couple of minutes if you can bear it and rinse and repeat every day. He will probably be able to tell you how dilated you are and if its changing each day too. Just make sure hands are very clean and you are relaxed. Remember if it hurts abit he is doing it right but you shouldnt be in too much pain, thats not the point of it.
Not medical advice from me, just personal experience from a lady who has gone 4 days over with both her babies and got a lesson from midwife on how to check.
Well i found my cervix easy peesy today (a sign maybe


so back to bouncin on my ball !!!