So for you girls that haven't been stalking a while, or who just joined. This "little" comment that you all think caused the original people to leave, wasn't the only comment or only reason everyone left.
The short of it is, Its hard having pregnant ladies and ladies TTC all in on thread. Those of us who have gotten BFP didnt want to leave because we have all grown to love each other. THe tension that caused though was a mess. Those still TTC are still on the hard road. Its difficult to see someone have something you want so badly. Those who have gotten their bfp , are excited and want to share that excitement with everyone. Its hard to be that happy over something and feel that you cant share totally because you dont want to make someone else feel bad. And again its hard TTC seeing someone else have that. So splitting the thread into a preggies and testing was prolly the best all around. No one is getting their feelings hurt. Everyone is fee too feel the way they like to feel. no one has to hold back anything.
I think it was long over due. And less stressful all around. Like I told RN in a PM It wasnt her fault.....there was stuff that was building up over time..and it just happened to come to a head....thats all there was too it. Part of it was hormones part of it was holding it back for so long until it exploded.....
I felt the need to explain this because I keep seeing post about everyone leaving over something little and stupid...but is wasnt just this...it was many things combined. It was just time to move on and thats it.
I know its hard to keep the PMA while ttc..its hard, and painful. Everyone of the ladies who got their bfp know how hard that road can be. Sometimes that seems to be forgotten. We have all been here.
I want those to know that once they get their BFP to pls join us https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy-groups/569140-gallery-preggies.html
feel fee to stalk too! Just remember to bring your PMA and leave your ttc troubles at the door
I hope I was able to articulate what Im trying to say. It wasnt one thing or ONE PERSON that caused this...It needed to happen, so that everyone was happy!!