Gallery of preggies

[Sweet_Alida]

10 you don't know this pregnancy isn't going to stick. Wait until you get your betas back until you write this one off. I pray your numbers are good and rising even if they are rising slow if they rise there is hope.

 

[Mal]

So i think I am at my wits end. I have about had it with my OH, I love him I really do but i am to the point I am over trying to do everything that I have just gave up. I dont want to be here with him anymore, I dont want to do anything.


Its just been building up and building up that I am to the point I want to explode. I dont have a car so i cant leave even fi I wanted to. I have no friends, no family and I am just over it.

 

[10nottoomany]

I got my result back, it's 330 something. I couldn't hear him well the phone was cutting out. He said to call back in an hour and something about it being two in a row now. He didn't answer and I left a message. I was scared of the slow rising betas because of the added risk of ectopic. I am terribly sad to be going through this again, but at the same time I'm relieved because I feel like I'm not in danger. Today is 6 weeks, I wonder how long it will take. If it's going down that fast I would think it wouldn't be very long.

 

[Sweet_Alida]

I got my result back, it's 330 something. I couldn't hear him well the phone was cutting out. He said to call back in an hour and something about it being two in a row now. He didn't answer and I left a message. I was scared of the slow rising betas because of the added risk of ectopic. I am terribly sad to be going through this again, but at the same time I'm relieved because I feel like I'm not in danger. Today is 6 weeks, I wonder how long it will take. If it's going down that fast I would think it wouldn't be very long.

I am sorry. I hope you get some answers. I hope if you try again that you can find a way to go see the specialist either before or right when you get your bfp. I know you'll get another if you are willing to try. Nothing I say will take the hurt away. Even after 8 mc's the pain was still there. I hope and pray they find a reason for this. It's not your progesterone is it? Just wondering if they ever tested that??? Your in my thoughts....

 

[Sweet_Alida]

So i think I am at my wits end. I have about had it with my OH, I love him I really do but i am to the point I am over trying to do everything that I have just gave up. I dont want to be here with him anymore, I dont want to do anything.


Its just been building up and building up that I am to the point I want to explode. I dont have a car so i cant leave even fi I wanted to. I have no friends, no family and I am just over it.

Hey Mal I am not sure everything your going thru, but I get that way with my OH. I let things build up and build up and then being pregnant doesn't help any. Men have no understanding of how hard being pregnant is on a woman. Yes there are def good points about being pregnant but there are bad ones too! They need to understand how hard it is on a woman to GROW a Baby! My OH still swears that he never wanted to TTC again(but he did know and was on board with it I think he thought it would never happen for us!) and that he didn't want this baby(but then he tells me to take it easy that he doesn't want anything to happen to his baby!)! He is still not 100% on board because of all the fears he has about this pregnancy and this baby being sick like our daughter. I know the mean stuff he says is all out of fear but it still hurts. I know when he holds this baby he will fall in love with it too. Men don't get it. Try to get some rest and take him out to dinner or somewhere you can "talk" about whatever is bothering you. I like to talk with DH over dinner(out to eat dinner not at home.) because if he starts to get upset he doesn't want to make a scene so he calms down and we can finish our talk and tempers never get too hot...usually!
Good Luck I'm sorry your having these feelings. I hope you guys can work it out.

 

[Mal]

Im sure we will be just fine. I just am stressed out over work and his work, and money, my pinched nerve, and everything and just not having very supportive friends so it makes me a very lonely person

 

[mommyof2peas]

Mal, I dont know the whole story. But as someone one that has been there before. Going on three times now. I would try to make time to just enjoy some time with your OH. With the baby coming you'll be very stressed out wanting all your ducks in a row befoer she gets here. And Im sure your OH is the same way. Men just dont tend to show it the same way. There are soooo many emotions flying around for so many reasons. One of the most true things Ive hears it " A mother becomes a mother when she because pregnant, A father becomes a father one he HOLDS his new baby" We all want the best love. Just sometimes we work it out a bit differently I sure hope I make sense at least a little bit! And your welcome to FB me or msg me here to if you like any time I might not be your BBF, but I can be a good friend

 

[babyhopes2010]

Ok so im on holiday with my husband and im nearly 15wks and looking a bit chubby.
He is constantly staring at the other women and commenting on how good or not good there figures are.Also Learing at other women on the beach.

I never had a problem with this but since iv become noticeably looking pregnant iv become insanely jealous,iv even go to toilets to cry cos ifeel like he doesnt fancy me as much as these slim women.

The comment he made yesterday whilst on the beach was
'wow shes got nice figure and shes got children''

Also iv noticed him staring at womens boobs as they walk by and im talking to him and his lostin a stare.

Help,I feel like sh%t!

I either am noticing it more or his suddenly v intrested in otherwomen,or both are correct.

Iv NEVER been a jealous person

 

[ClaireMuir123]

You have to tell him Clare! If he's done this before and knows you've never had a problem with it then he probably doesn't realise how it's making you feel now you're pregnant. Hope you get it sorted and feel better soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[05mummy07]

10 sending you lots of hugs really wish there was something I could say to make it all alright

Clare if that was my OH he would find himself being very sharply slapped round the face, that is not on, and more so out of line to comment to you about it.

Mal, I know how you feel. I've been in the same situation many times, sometimes ploughing on through it is the only way, BUT you really do need to voice your concerns/opinions to him before it can get any better. Lots of luck xx

 

[babyhopes2010]

Thanks ladies,my Dh is a wonderful man but puts his foot in it alot.
Im at the stage yeh i look pregnant but someone people could mistake it for fat so im in the inbetween stage,iv spoke to DH and he said well im married to you the most beautiful women in th world is right here carrying my baby and im proud.Which is cute BUT i just wish he would be sly about it.Yeh i look at men (rarely i know) and sometimes think corr what a fitty but i dont 'fancy' them in that way.\
I know men look at women all the time but im feeling so self concious which i real real bad about becos i struggled to get pregnant for 2yrs and here i am complaining about it I should be grateful really \

Oh and i totally looked at this guys bulger and just said Wow-That was all
DH went silent see he dont like it the other way does he

 

[mummylove]

10 sorry u are going through this I hope u get answers soon.

Babyhopes my OH as never been like that he dont bother looking at other women he jsut says to me why look at other women like that when he has me. I aint got the figure I used to av I used to be really skinny I got to a size 8 but now im a 14 and I hate cus I feel he might not love me anymore cus im not the person he fell in love with and he jsut says he loves me no matter wot

 

[RNmommy]

BabyHopes - Im sorry about your hubby gawking at the other ladies. Men dont think sometimes. But the "bulge" comment had me
I guess you showed him!!! LOL!!

Mal - I hope it all works out for you. Ive been there, in a situation like that before. It sucks to not have anyone around you when you need them.

10 - My prayers are with you. Im sorry you're going through this.



**Ladies - I have a question for you.... Did you wait any certain amoutn of time to with your hubby after your BFP????

Im scared Im going to screw something up.

 

[mommyof2peas]

RN, I think DTD is just fine long as maybe your a bit slow about it? lol I never really worried about it no.

35 weeks today. Is it wrong that Im starting to get disappointed that I didnt go into labor the night before? Im so over being pregnant at this point lol Today was my sleep in day and I was up at 8am because Amelia was rolling around and then she gave herself the hick ups lol dang it!

 

[Mal]

i want the next 3 months to fast forward and have baby here. I am tired of being pregnant these hormones dont make me feel like myself and I hate it. I just want to feel normal again and hold my little baby in my arms.


She wakes me up almost every morning now haha if I lay on my left side its worse cause she starts kicking and squirming either that or she has the hiccups I cant tell yet lol..

 

[babyhopes2010]

RN yeh we did it like once a week and now do it every day

 

[RNmommy]

Did any of you have cramping early on??? I know its normal but Im just wondering how bad it was and how long it lasted?
I dont remember ever cramping with my son.
I worry when I cramp and then I worry when I don't. Its a vicious cycle. LOL!!

 

[mommyof2peas]

First tri It was crazy cramping. Its VERY normal. Everything is growing and expanding

 

[lilmackate]

This time I haven't had much cramping but with the boys I did. In fact I've had so little actual cramps this time that I thought my uterus wasn't growing so my ultrasound were a life savor. I'm sure all is fine every pregnancy is truly different.

 

[Mal]

SO I just successfully mowed 3 yards with the riding lawn mower... by the way first time using one lol only reason I did 3 yards is cause I did my yard, my MIL yard and my grandmother owns the house next to us but no one lives in it lol

Now I am pooped.