Hi Ladies, I am 14 weeks with my second child and I am desperate for a girl. My OH doesn't want to find out the sex until birth unless I really want to but what worries me is this. If I find that I am expecting another boy at the 20 week scan I have the rest of pregnancy to get used to the fact but if I don't find out until the birth I am worried about my reaction upon being told its a boy?? Please don't get me wrong, I am so grateful to be expecting at my age (38) and I will love the baby whatever but this is the last child I will have. What shall I do???????