SarahBear
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So when you don't adhere to gender stereotypes, people notice and not in a positive way... This was true with Violet when we dressed her in "boys" clothes when she was a toddler and baby and it is even more true for boys. Leo's hair is really growing now and it's long enough to be clearly "girly." I respect his wishes when it comes to his hair length and he likes it long. He has been consistent about wanting long hair and hasn't wavered on it. He also likes pink and princesses. So, between allowing him to wear pink and allowing him to grow his hair long, he's looking more and more like a girl these days. When we took Violet to the doctor today, Leo even picked a sticker with a disney princess in a sparkley dress that he proudly stuck to his shirt. He understandably gets mistaken for a girl all the time now that his hair is long. I don't mind him getting mistaken for a girl, I just wonder about judgement from others and how he'll develop as he discovers gender norms...
So for others that didn't force their boy into a box and whose boy consequently gravitated toward certain "feminine" things, did you or your son experience judgement and how did things change for your boy over time as he became aware of cultural norms for gender?
So for others that didn't force their boy into a box and whose boy consequently gravitated toward certain "feminine" things, did you or your son experience judgement and how did things change for your boy over time as he became aware of cultural norms for gender?