General chatter while we wait (and commentary on the "pull out method")

[Cppeace]

Shae usually they are the same but occasionally you can get blisters from an actual fever that can be unrelated. But generally a cold sore and fever blister is the same thing.

I dunno what was discussed by Fern but I agree, All Rapists are monsters.

 

[Brightxeyes]

What’s the earliest you can test? I know they say wait til the first day of your period. But I bought a whole bunch of tests on eBay really cheap as there’s been a handful of times I’ve thought I was late so thought it’d be best to have some cheap ones around!

I’m due on my period the 1st and it’s usually on time, so 8 days away!

When I was pregnant with my son, I actually had period cramps for 2-3 days before I tested (only because my partner said I should, I was convinced my period was still well and truly on the way).

 

[gigglebox]

If you have a good odea of when you ovulated, i'd say 9dpo is a reasonable time to test, as long as you know it may be a false negative if no line, and also as long as the tests are sensitive.

Although here we test starting at 7dpo

Studio is so close to being done! Can't wait to start classes and hopefully earn money so we can pay off debt and get a car and start ttc!

Fluek we are thinkg about starting in june so maybe we'll be bumb buddies again! Fx!

When is everyone who is planning on another starting to ttc?

 

[gigglebox]

If anyone follows my youtube, i put up a video of me painting. No farm stuff this time though...

 

[ladyoflocksle]

Hey just wanted to pop in before I head to bed. I took my daughter to Urgent Care tonight where she tested positive for Type A flu!! Praying that DH and I don't get it!!

I hope everyone else is doing well

 

[Cppeace]

that stinks Lady. If you can help it I would say no to tamiflu. Alot of people are having bad reactions to it.
Hope she gets well soon.

 

[shaescott]

CP- While Tamiflu has caused a few adverse side effects like hallucinations, it really depends on the individual. This flu season has been deadly, and not because of tamiflu. When kids are dying, advising someone to refuse a medication because of reports of side effects when you aren’t a medical professional is really not okay. I understand wanting to help and protect kids, but giving medical advice to go against doctor’s advice when there’s so much on the line can be dangerous. I don’t mean to come off as mean or rude, as I respect you and your opinions.

Lady- if your child has the strain of flu that has been killing kids, I would highly recommend taking the treatment the doctors advise, whether it’s tamiflu or something else, because I’d rather have my child hallucinate temporary than risk them dying. Obviously, your child, your choice, and I respect whatever you decide to do. That said, if they don’t take you seriously and you know something is wrong, advocate for your child. There was a case where a child was given the medication and it did not work, and the parents called an ambulance for her labored breathing, and the paramedics told them it was normal for the flu and she would be fine. She died later that day. You know your kid best. I hope and pray that she will just have a regular flu experience (aka crappy but not dangerous). I also hope and pray that you and the rest of your family do not catch it.

 

[DobbyForever]

Apparently I unsubscribed whoops

Fern hugs I didn’t see your post but if you need to vent you can pm me.

Lady so sorry about the flu! . Hope she feels better soon and that it doesn’t spread to you and hubby

Gigs so glad you sprung for the studio! That’s awesome it’s almost done!

Forgot what else. Custody battle rages on but he was an ass in court so at least they know he’s out for his money and i’m out for A. But still exhausting. I don’t want to talk about it/won’y really update on it until things are said and done/I know you ladies support me through this so the best thing you can do is just not type it. I can’t deal seeing a bunch of thinking of you/it’ll work out empathetic messages. I love you, I know you love me. We’re square . And I did get my drinking in check to one glass a night max after that I just tell that little voice to eat it

 

[shaescott]

Dobs, hi! Whoops about unsubscribing. Glad to hear you weren’t kidnapped by aliens from the planet Zorg or locked in a bunker or something crazy

 

[DobbyForever]

yeah I was like wtf none of them have posted in like a week that doesn’t seem right haha. But yeah even if I was subscribed it’s been hectic with progress reports and court. Bright side I did my taxes and between my lowered income from unpaid mat leave and my deductions and my failure to fill out my effing w4 correctly i’m Getting a refund that’s enough to pay off my credit card and repay my parents for my attorney’s fees

 

[Cppeace]

Shae I understand what you are saying and I am not commenting on the mild side effects, but several people I know have gotten Sepsis after a 5 day tamifu regimen. People should do what they feel is best. Doctors are not gods and no medication is without risks.
The Tamiflu reactions seem to be worst in the people who got both the flu shot and the regimen treatment. That could be coincidental or it could not be.

In either case , I hope all goes well and the flu is gotten over quickly with no major issues.

 

[Cppeace]

WB Dobby!

 

[gigglebox]

Doooooobbbbbbyyyyyy!
Are you getting money back for A? Ugh I'm sooo not looking forward to doing taxes. Especially with an llc ugh it's just frustrating. I did turbo tax last year which was fine but it's a painful process.

We're actually thinking about starting a second llc which is a good news bad news kind of thing! Exciting but gotta spend money to make it :/ blah.

 

[Flueky88]

Gigs, so awesome that studio is almost done. You are so talented and I look forward to seeing your work. Ah, I hope we can be bump biddies again. My baby fever isn't so strong this month thankfully. I believe I'm going to work more days then go back full time late April. So I'll be benefited in June. I think I'll stay on DH insurance though, it's better than mine was. Although we have this huge merger between hospital systems about to finalize so who know what's going to happen.

Lady I hope that the sickness doesn't spread and there is fast recovery. I felt better 4 hours after my 1st tamiflu pill.

Cppeace temp looking good. Anxious for your test. I'll live vicariously through you for now lol.

Shae you still liking your classes? Do you start nursing classes in the fall? Or next year?


As far as tamiflu. It does not cause sepsis. The sepsis was more than likely caused by pneumonia or some other bacterial infection that was left untreated. Tamiflu is an antiviral medication and cannot take care of bacterial infection. Lots of people developing pneumonia due to complication of flu. Anywho, enough on this.

Had a good talk with DH and I feel closer to him than ever. We are planning a mini vacation in April and I can't wait

Well, I think V is starting to rouse.

 

[Flueky88]

Oh and Dobby glad you are alright and fantastic news on taxes

 

[Cppeace]

Lol Fleuky, living vicariously through my testing will surely lead to disappointment. I am working on 3 years ttc at this point. I have 117 days left of my ff (it was less but people keep clicking my chart and signing up, giving me free days lol) and when it runs out I will stop actively ttc.

As for Tamiflu- this will be last I say about it. One of the known side effect for using it is lung irritation and respiratory issues. So you have a viral infection that is already weakening you and you take a medication that in some people causes lung issues, which increases their chance of pneumonia- which in turn can lead to sepsis.
All Medication has possible reactions.

 

[shaescott]

Yup, every medication has possible adverse reactions. That’s why I say to talk to your doctor and use your best judgement. I’ll end it there.

Flueks- I’m only on week two of classes, but they’re not bad so far. History is quite long and full of names and dates, so I’m basically taking notes for an hour straight, which is boring. Otherwise, it’s been okay. I’m taking A&P 2 + Lab, Lifespan Development, Western History (1600s to now), Health Sociology, and the required religion class, which is quite fun sometimes when debating philosophical stuff. It really makes me think deeper about things. I start nursing classes in the fall. I’ve started getting my requirements in and I have to redo my MMR and Hep B vaccines cuz I got my titers done and I’m immune to chicken pox, mumps, and rubella (from the vaccines as a kid), but I’m not immune to measles or hep B, so I gotta redo them then retest. One might be a booster. Not sure. We just got info about ordering our uniforms so that’s super exciting (even though it’s super expensive). Oh and I’m doing the BLS for Healthcare Professionals CPR class Feb 5th, so that’s another requirement getting done soon. I’m excited! Eeee!

 

[gigglebox]

Fluek what will you do with v whilst on vacation?

 

[Flueky88]

Shae your class line up sounds pretty good. I really enjoyed A&P2. I also had to get an MMR shot in college. I cat recall which one I wasn't immune to though. My DON asked if I wanted compound pharmacy to make which one I needed, but went ahead and got the full one. I've obviously lived to see the day since that was like 9 years ago. Do you still have same roommate?

Gigs, going to take her with us. I think I'll drop mocha at my mom's though. Oh, I'm only subscribed to your other YouTube channel. Can you PM the one with your painting video?

 

[ladyoflocksle]

Hey Everyone,

Thanks for the well wishes for my daughter. She is not a young child, she is 25. I'm sorry that I didn't say that in advance. My children are grown. My DS is 27 and will be 28 in May. I am an older mom (46, will be 47 in Aug.). DD didn't get the flu shot but DH and I did. I teach 1st grade and since I am a teacher, I usually try to get the flu shot every year.