General chatter while we wait (and commentary on the "pull out method")

[JLM73]

>3
Just wanted to say I LOVE you all!!!

 

[pacificlove]

It's always so awkward when leaving a job pl. but at least take on good terms and your boss sounds so childish. But you're almost back with hubs!

No kidding, my last job the supervisor was 3 hours away and that was brilliant. Only met him once in 1 1/2 years.

Thanks for being all so understanding and supportive the last few weeks!!

 

[mrs.green2015]

Aww everyone on here is so amazing! I couldn't imagine going threw all of this crap without you ladies!

 

[gigglebox]

Ditto, glad this little group of ours came to exist!

You all have got me reconsidering the vbac...i'm just worried because if i try that, and i fail, i'm back to an unplanned c section which is harder on the body than a planned one.

But i would like the experience of a natural birth...

Ugggh i don't even know, man.

PL, good luck with the sheep. Can you make a temporary fence to herd them in? A couple of steaks and chicken wire...?

Sorry your last day is...odd. I had this boss lady who hated me. She smiled when i handed in my letter of resignation. She didn't say a word to me on my last day....granted, i made it very clear on my exit interview she was the reason i quit.

 

[mrs.green2015]

Ladies!!!!!!
I officially have ewcm!!! And a whole lot of it. So I feel very confident I'm going to ovulate. And if I don't I KNOW I will next month. My body is trying hard to make it happen. I think I'll ovulate tonight or tomorrow.

 

[TexasRider]

Awesome news Mrs. Green! Are yall still TTA or will you try and catch the egg??

 

[mrs.green2015]

Well that's a loaded question Texas... lol we're technically ntnp. And we haven't been bding much. BUT I am going to make sure I'm getting some in today just in case. this month wouldn't be the best month to get pregnant but I'm not going to put my life on hold for a maybe.

 

[pacificlove]

GO MrsG!! I hope your hubby is somewhere close, go get some man juice!!

Gigs: we don't have enough snow to put stakes into the snow and the ground is frozen a few feet deep. Good idea though.

We are supposed to get freezing rain and snow tonight, so my plans to get the trailer tomorrow are on hold.

The boss is still odd, in the mean time 3 out of 4 owners have thanked me for my contributions to the company.

I'll only be able to check in from my phone or tablet from now on, so posts will be a bit shorter (and maybe more infrequent) until I have a desktop set up again.

 

[FutureMrs]

Well unfortunately I think I've suffered a loss, I should've known better to get so excited so early on, but I am basically bleeding enough to classify as a period now and took a test that was negative.

 

[mrs.green2015]

I'm so so so sorry future. I've been there. Very recently and if you need to talk feel free to pm me. Also reach out to your ob because infection can happen.

 

[FutureMrs]

Thank you so much Mrs it's funny how attached we become, it's a very empty feeling and you can almost tell instantly. I appreciate your kind words!

 

[mrs.green2015]

It absolutely is. And no matter how far along that's your baby and feel as sad or however you want to feel. There's no right way. I only say that because I wish someone had said it to me.

 

[TexasRider]

Future I am so sorry for your loss.

Green- go for it girl! Have fun and if it's meant to be then it will be!

 

[gigglebox]

Mrs, i hope you catch that egg! Good luck to you!

PL, i almost exclusively use my ipad but i really miss a desktop computer where i can actually type with home keys.

Future, so very sorry to read about your loss. If you need to talk about it, please do.

 

[campn]

Mrs- Go catch that awesome eggy!! Don't you waste it! Never know when a great egg will come if it's meant to be it'll be! Good luck hun

Future- This breaks my heart. I'm so sorry. I know it's so common but it doesn't make it any easy. I totally agree with mrsG, it's OKAY to grieve and weeks don't mean anything, your feelings mean everything. We're all here to help you through it. you're in my thoughts.

 

[pacificlove]

Sorry futureMrs.... Hugs to you. my heart goes out to you.

Gigs, I don't like the tablet for typing long messages yet, but maybe after I get used to it I'll like it.

 

[DobbyForever]

I hate So. But I'm scared I'm knocked up. He is so mean. Not on purposes. But if I am shouldn't I stay with him

 

[claireybell]

Ladies!!!!!!
I officially have ewcm!!! And a whole lot of it. So I feel very confident I'm going to ovulate. And if I don't I KNOW I will next month. My body is trying hard to make it happen. I think I'll ovulate tonight or tomorrow.

Yay!! Go body MrsG

 

[claireybell]

Oh no Future im sorry for your loss hun it doesnt matter how far along we are, loss is still painful, please take time to grieve it & share if you want to talk with us girls here, we are here for you xx

Oh no Dobby.. Whats happened? You need to do what you feel is best sweet

Pacific we still like mini short update posts hehe! Hope you get the trailer sorted this morning & it hasnt snowed loads! I only message here on my iphone, its a pain but our Laptop is crappers urghhh!!!

Crazy that ive gone from a Plum to a Peach in just 3 days lol

 

[JLM73]

Future I am so very sorry...

Ladies I am thinking I am out this cycle...
Don't care to relive it all, but had a MASSIVE blow out with mom- which is nothing unusual, but she got my oldest son involved and he said the nastiest things to me ever!
I literally had this child when I just turned 18 and his father wanted me to abort him, and he is siding with my psychotic mother because she is agreeing to buy him a car...
I didn't meet with donor due to all of this... she is a wicked nasty person and he is too young to see it! My son literally cursed me out while she stood smiling....
I have no words...