mrs.green2015
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Swimmy- congrats on the weight loss! I need to take before pictures but I'm too scared. What if I fail and don't loose?
The boys are great! They are almost 7 months old! How does it go so fast? They are totally my main motivation. They're starting to move around already and it scares me how quickly it'll be here lol
I wanted to comment on the situation with your DH. It is 100%! YOUR choice and it IS harder to stay than to leave. It infuriates me that people are pushing their options on you. About 4 years ago my DH cheated on me and obviously decided to stay so I know how hard and how much work it is. I didn't tell many and I made it very clear (after I realized people thought they needed to tell me what to do) that it's mine of their business and I will be making my own decision and that If I wanted their opinion I would ask. I don't know how long ago any of his happened but I would have a talk with your family and tell them they need to back off. All they are going to do is make this harder on you and Lizzy. Ever since then I have always said "don't say you would or wouldn't do something unless you've been in the situation because the fact is you DON'T know what you would do" I always thought I'd leave until it happened. Sorry this was so long and mostly a ramble but if you ever need support please feel free to reach out.
The boys are great! They are almost 7 months old! How does it go so fast? They are totally my main motivation. They're starting to move around already and it scares me how quickly it'll be here lol
I wanted to comment on the situation with your DH. It is 100%! YOUR choice and it IS harder to stay than to leave. It infuriates me that people are pushing their options on you. About 4 years ago my DH cheated on me and obviously decided to stay so I know how hard and how much work it is. I didn't tell many and I made it very clear (after I realized people thought they needed to tell me what to do) that it's mine of their business and I will be making my own decision and that If I wanted their opinion I would ask. I don't know how long ago any of his happened but I would have a talk with your family and tell them they need to back off. All they are going to do is make this harder on you and Lizzy. Ever since then I have always said "don't say you would or wouldn't do something unless you've been in the situation because the fact is you DON'T know what you would do" I always thought I'd leave until it happened. Sorry this was so long and mostly a ramble but if you ever need support please feel free to reach out.