Do you know what I find disrespectful? Telling people that their vows mean nothing.
I said people who make a promise to God when they have no intention of ever keeping it are dishonoring the fundamental meaning of their vows.
If you go into the Priest, honestly, and say 'I'm not religious but we would like to incorporate the church and it's beliefs into our lives', then good for you. For standing up for what you believe in. And for allowing what you believe in to prevail.
The wedding part of my post had nothing to do with you. 3 weeks ago I was at a Wedding/baptism where they promised to raise their child under God, and promised to allow God into their marriage etc. It was a religious ceremony. Yet neither of them believed in God. Their entire ceremony was a sham. They stood there looking all solemn and interested, when actually they didn't believe a single thing that was being said at their OWN wedding. What kind of start is that to married life? Turns out it was all to get their child into the school they wanted
I don't see the point in it.