So, like 2 of my super olddd ex boyfriends who basically treated me like SHIT asked me can they be the "god" father of my child. One i dated in 8th grade the other in 9th. I stopped texting one because he was getting annoying and now the other comes out of no where demanding why i didn't tell him i was pregnant. Now he asks can he be the god father. I plain and simply say No and he says why not claiming im being so mean. In the past he'd text me talking about my ex/FOB when we were dating like he knew him and kept asking why i won't love him back. What is the true definition of a god mother or father? Someone who can keep the kid if something happens to mother/father right?