Well this has blown all other arguments out of the water we had refused all re modernizing to be done to our house last year as we have spent too much money in decorating ect and didn't want it ruined I'm very particular when it comes to my decor we both agreed this last year so anyway the council manager came today in regards to a complaint I made about a repair on the leaky toilet not being done as it's still leaking let my husband deal with it anyway half an hour later my husband tells my that the manager has left and that my husband told him to do all the work now that he's changed his mind WITHOUT discussing it with me I'm foaming ladies beyond words it's not long been done to my spec my bathroom fully tiled my kitchen tiles for god sake they are going to put a horrible socket in the middle of my feature wall in my living room for a fire which I don't have ruining the look of my room I know this might sound stupid to most of you but that's just the way I am lol they are going to rip wallpaper away in everyroom to do the rewiring and this stupid Fu@@ing moron is saying he will repair it won't ever happen I know him not to mention all the dust and mess when there's a baby here I honestly want to throw him out we both said some REALLY nasty hurtful things and you know what I meant half of them then he's screaming at the top of his lungs right in my face oooooooo am I supposed to be intimidated well am not so that probably made it worse that I'm not some little girl who will back down he shouts on my face he gets it back 10x worse I know he would never hit me though just as well as I would hit him back harder haha sorry for babbling on x