Has anyone else not had sex for ages??..

[Maman]

ive done it quite a lot but my bump is just sooo in the way my husband has a sore shoulder from trying to balance.

Why dont you try some foreplay/oral sex instead? we brought some flavoured lube x

 

[robinator]

Not since May or June. I have no interest whatsoever

 

[PinkGlitter87]

Same here!!..... Twice since conception!!! x x x

 

[sparklebunny]

thats the same with me too and i was getting slightly paranoid about how cool dh is about it all i think we have dtd 3 times since march!!!

Lol! thats exactly how i feel! He just seems to be ok?! Tbh, i've not been in the mood to have actual sex for months now, but it's mainly because he says I look so pg it freaks him out!

 

[_simo_]

I'm obsessed with it, but he is freaked out by bump and I'm sick of instigating it... I feel like a beached whale trying to go down on him and stuff while gasping for breath...so I officially gave up 2 days ago (begrudgingly) and have told him we are done until I look like a human again and don't repulse him He offered me guilt sex the other day and I refusede...I don't need pitied! I need him to want me!!!! Wow...so turns out I was a little bit pissed off haha...

 

[momma_2_four]

I haven't DTD since the day I got pregnant. Literally.

 

[EstelSeren]

We managed it a couple of times in first tri and we've tried a couple of times since. It's just actually quite painful now and it hurts to just move my legs apart enough that he can get a good angle so it's really awkward, plus I've just not really been in the mood! We have been more intimate in other ways though- lots of touching and kissing and foreplay. For me at least, just a cuddle makes me feel really loved and relaxed and good about myself, which is really good! Do think that I need to do a bit more for him though, especially as my giant pillow makes snuggling in our sleep virtually impossible now! Hopefully normal service will resume asap once she's here!

Beca :wave:

 

[booboomagoo]

We made love pretty regularly through the first and second trimester. Now it's getting uncomfortable for both of us with the belly in the way. We still have intimate times, but they don't incorporate vaginal penetration as often - lots of hand jobs and oral sex... I'm not complaining!

 

[Sam3starX]

Me and My partner haven't had sex since we found out which was February 11th lol!!! ... Solely because we M/C 3 years ago and it took us 3 years to finally fall pregnant again and agreed nothing goes up me until baby comes out as i was so nervous of another M/C

but i keep him satisfied in other ways every night so he's more then happy plus it was also he decision as he was nervous as he has been waiting for a child for ages too x

 

[Sweedot]

We had regular sex right through the pregnancy at least 2-3 times a week right from conception.... until that is, after we DTD last saturday I had a bleed and ended up in labour and delivery being monitored...

turned out it was just from friction as I was swollen down there ...but it definitely upset hubby and now he says he's fine to wait until after the baby is here, If Im honest Im kind of grateful, my belly is really starting to get in the way and my hips hurt so bad I cant get into comfortable positions!

So probably no sex for us until after 37 weeks now!

 

[MegGriffin]

Same here - i'm worried about harming the baby somehow or bringing on premature labour plus i don't attractive at all.

 

[eagermom]

Just 3-4 times since we found until may.... Nothing after that...

I get so horny but DH is very cautious and doesnt want to harm the baby or me!!! I dont know from where he gets that control from!!!!

And now at times when he just caresses me i feel hes never touched me that way lolzzz...

 

[Kmx]

Can't remember the last tome lol

 

[MiniMommy]

I havent because I end up walking like im saddle sore for days and everytime we do it i feel like im losing my virginity all over again

I'm the exact same, its been to long and I feel sorry for him, but no matter how gentle he is , I feel like I'm loosing my virginity again and am sore for the rest f the day

 

[jojolou1981]

me and my partner haven't had sex since i got pregnant, ive sorted him out so to speak but i don't want it at all and he feels the same about the sex thing that baby is there so to speak and its a little bit freaky for us lol

 

[Zooy]

We haven't in about 3 weeks just because we're never home at the same time and I'm tired of initiating it. Hubby hasn't learned that squeezing my hand to tell me he wants sex doesn't get me in the mood.

 

[sara k]

every woman,every pregnancy and every baby is different..dont worry...hope you start enjoying after having baby..

 

[Jynx]

My OH and I haven't don't it in weeks if not months by now... I think he's definately wierded out as he said the other day ( after a few beers) " I think of you more like I think of my mom now"... Just what a pregnant woman wants to hear, right?
I'm hoping this goes away after the baby is born and is just temporary. I feel all you frustrated ladies pain!

 

[tali]

I hear you and share the frustration. We've only DTD once in the whole 37 weeks we've been pregnant - it's a distant memory I can tell you. He's had his fair share of being 'looked after' shall we say whereas it freaks him out to come anywhere near me. The sexual frustration is one thing I definitely won't miss

 

[xAmberLFCx]

I Havent had sex since i was around 16 or 17 weeks pregnant .. Sometimes i really want it and OH isnt up for it coz hes a bit worried about bubs being there lol.. & the times hes tried it on ive knocked him back coz i feel so unattractive cant win either way really! lol.
I really wanna start doing it alot when we get to full term tho! i wanna get this baby out! haha