Has anyone else not had sex for ages??..

[SmartieMeUp]

My sex drive was wild for the first 16 weeks and was at it at least 2x a day, then for a couple of weeks I went off it, then back to jumping on the OH. Recently it hasn't appealed to me, but I still treat him every 3-4 days if I can be bothered. I don't enjoy it. Feels like he's rubbing a brick wall inside me; Lubrication isn't there.

Oh, and with stretch marks coming along, the 'feeling sexy' vibe has disappeared.

 

[BumpyM]

I hear you all.
When I was pregnant, my OH didn't come near me during the whole period, and I later found out, resorted to watching porn on the internet, contacting local women for relief, "staying at work late", in the end we broke up due to his lack of compassion, lots of arguments and infidelity.
Our sexual relationship never did get better after I gave birth.
I am much happier now he's gone, and I have my lovely baby to love and be loved by.

 

[CAM]

Im glad I read this as I thought it was just us or me rather, had bleeding at about 8 weeks and since then till now I think maybe three times!! Good to know I am not the only one xx

 

[cedrickerry]

I started IVF treatment in January,and got my BFP in February , being induced in 4 weeks and not had sex throughout! I'm glad to hear that we are not the only ones with a lull!

 

[ProudMum]

im in serious need of some & soon lol

 

[AnonymousMoi]

I feel ya, it's been like 2 months... maybe 3 here. Dosen't help that all my extra weight that isn't baby has gone to my butt and legs I don't even want him to see me naked.