Im going to leave this thread after this because I have always felt free to give my opinions in this forum without being judged and this thread has deeply upset me!!!!
I certainly dO NOT nor WILL EVER abuse my children, I am a teacher and definatley do not believe that violence is in any way acceptable towards children.
My eldest child is 5years old and I have smacked her on the bottom only, a handful of times.
Sometimes talking doesnt always work (most of the time it does) but sometimes I feel they need a shock......I never do it hard, it never leaves a mark, but it just puts things into perspective and makes them think about their actions.......especially if the action has been a dangerous one!
Children will NOT be traumatised from a handful of smacked bottoms, they would be traumatised from being punched in the face, kicked in the stomach, starved etc etc.....ABUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am NOT an abusive parent, and I am deeply shocked by the response of some narrow minded people on this tread........
seriously wondeing if it worth even having a baby and bump account........really upset by this, HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT I ABUSE MY CHILDREN??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????