honeybee2
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Ive just come over from TTC because we have put a break on trying for a baby.
Let me fill you in about me....
Im 20 years old (21 in oct cant wait yey!) and engaged to the most gorgeous, wonderful trustworthy and passionate person Ive ever met- Liam and we're getting married on the 2nd Aug 2010 (yes I know its a Monday haha) we've been together for three years and engaged for one.
I'm in university atm training to be a teacher and my Fiance has just finished and now a qualified Graphic design teacher in a college! I'm so proud of him and admire him so much (Just cant believe how wonderful he is haha
)
Our story starts a few months back when we had a passionate night without condoms (usually this is not a problem, we just used withdrawral) but this particular night he said, I was his only one and true love (we're getting married so Ive heard it a million times but it never gets boring!) and he would like to NOT withdraw and see what happens as he would love to have a family with me. So since then we havn't been trying but not being careful- if you get my drift, we are in such a loving and stable relationship that whatever contribution to our love would be a positive aspect anyway Ive had 
since for 3 cycles and its taken over my life, although we could not 
all the time (twice a week max) because we've only just started to live together and we both had exams the last few weeks and therefore just missing my OV date or catching it- but no conception.
However, if any of you are previous TTC peeps then you know it totally takes over your life and is all you can think about- next thing you know its tearing you and you O/H apart because he has to hold and console you ever time your
arrives and all your using his body for is sperm and not for him. Your ordering PG tests by the BULK from e-bay and everyday your testing you cervical mucus, testing everyday for PG from 1st since OV and reporting EVERY symptom possible- trust me, its one huge and stressful journey!
Anyway... my OH suggested I stop becoming so obsessive and just let nature take its course- stop testing everyday from OV and relax and wait another year so we can save- although we shall not be using condoms and just not generally being careful, but not officially trying....
so, Ive been demoted to WTT, although its not a bad thing, now I can relax, enjoy making love with my darling Fiance again, get back on track with wedding planning and just generally savouring every second of my amazing relationship.
So a big hello to you all ladies... and guys if there are any!!!!
Let me fill you in about me....
Im 20 years old (21 in oct cant wait yey!) and engaged to the most gorgeous, wonderful trustworthy and passionate person Ive ever met- Liam and we're getting married on the 2nd Aug 2010 (yes I know its a Monday haha) we've been together for three years and engaged for one.
I'm in university atm training to be a teacher and my Fiance has just finished and now a qualified Graphic design teacher in a college! I'm so proud of him and admire him so much (Just cant believe how wonderful he is haha
)Our story starts a few months back when we had a passionate night without condoms (usually this is not a problem, we just used withdrawral) but this particular night he said, I was his only one and true love (we're getting married so Ive heard it a million times but it never gets boring!) and he would like to NOT withdraw and see what happens as he would love to have a family with me. So since then we havn't been trying but not being careful- if you get my drift, we are in such a loving and stable relationship that whatever contribution to our love would be a positive aspect
anyway Ive had since for 3 cycles and its taken over my life, although we could not all the time (twice a week max) because we've only just started to live together and we both had exams the last few weeks and therefore just missing my OV date or catching it- but no conception.However, if any of you are previous TTC peeps then you know it totally takes over your life and is all you can think about- next thing you know its tearing you and you O/H apart because he has to hold and console you ever time your
arrives and all your using his body for is sperm and not for him. Your ordering PG tests by the BULK from e-bay and everyday your testing you cervical mucus, testing everyday for PG from 1st since OV and reporting EVERY symptom possible- trust me, its one huge and stressful journey! Anyway... my OH suggested I stop becoming so obsessive and just let nature take its course- stop testing everyday from OV and relax and wait another year so we can save- although we shall not be using condoms and just not generally being careful, but not officially trying....
so, Ive been demoted to WTT, although its not a bad thing, now I can relax, enjoy making love with my darling Fiance again, get back on track with wedding planning and just generally savouring every second of my amazing relationship.
So a big hello to you all ladies... and guys if there are any!!!!
but i dont mind, tm there are no jobs so i dont mind waiting i love studying! and thanks for the welcome! xx
xx
